Whats up with that?
There tons of things to do in cities that you don't have out in the country.
I spent 24 years in NYC and the past 2 1/2 in rural Nebraska so I feel I qualified to answer this.
Why don't people like cities?
-They smell. Especially the subway.
-They're dirty and polluted. Ever touch a door knob or railing and wonder "OMG! What is that slimy stuff on my hand!?!?!" Drive over the Verrazano-Narrows Bridge and glance over at Manhattan to see the dome of smog surrounding the city.
-They're congested. It used to take me 45 minutes to drive 8 miles to work in NYC, and that wasn't even in Manhattan. Crosstown Manhattan in the middle of the day? Bring a book with you.
-People are rude and inconsiderate. I've seen women fall in the street and 3 dozen people will walk within 3 feet of her and not even glance
-They're full of tourists. I have work to do and I don't want a group of tourists blocking the entire sidewalk to take pictures.
-Crime and the protection of the criminal element at the expense of the safety of citizens. Because
More Laws Are The Answer!
So, what's good about the city?
-Pro sports, if you like watching grown men play games with a stick and/or ball. Bring money and bring time.
-Concerts and other performing arts.
-Museums. The American Museum of Natural History is absolutely awesome. However, the SAC museum in Nebraska is great for militaria fans. Even my podunk town has a pretty nice museum for local stuff.
-Food. This is the biggest thing I miss about NYC.
What's nice about the country?
-I can legally drive over 50mph. Yup, in NYC, even on Interstates, the speed limit does not exceed 50mph. Even if it did, you're stuck in traffic.
-At night, I can see more than three stars in the sky.
-Going outside for fresh air gets you... fresh air (feedlots not withstanding).
-The ability to buy guns and ammo at the local hardware store and to the counter folks, it's like they're selling a hammer and some screws.
-It's nice to know my neighbors will call the police if they hear me screaming, not just close their window (google Kitty Genovese).
-Since there's less to do, you seek out activities and, in my case, end up doing more. Maybe it's because I took things for granted in NYC, but since moving to NE, I've gone to see dirt track races, to a science center, to gun shows, to museums, to the county fair, to the home show, to minor league hockey and baseball games...
-Good luck finding tractor pulls and rodeos in the big cities.