In 1991 my wife's parents were killed by an intruder with a tire iron. My father in law had guns but all were in a closet out of reach.
Even out in the country with almost no crime bad things can happen quickly and without a reason.
After 15 years, it's still tough. My kids are grown now but really missed their grandparents while growing up.
So... now I keep an 870 behind the front door loaded with rubber buck shot and lead buck shot( rubber buck shot for the neighbor's dog peeing on my tires), CBOB 10mm beside my recliner, 45 STI Ranger at my bed, 22 Marlin beside back door ( for stray cats in trash can).
Paranoid? No.
Prepared? Yes.