Group 9, I think you are missing the point. The point being that if my actions, or what I own, cause no one else harm, then it should not be regulated.
I know, drug addicts are pathetic( I have them in my immediate family).
I know that the way they conduct their lives, impacts other in the family.
If they use and endanger their kids, there are endangerment laws. If they drive under the influence, there are dui laws. If they steal to get their fix, there are theft laws. If they go to work everyday to the satisfaction of their employer, pay their bills like the rest of us, make sure the kids are provided for, then I think they should be able to do what they want.
Do I condone it? No.
Do I encourage it? No.
Do I associate with them just because they are my family? Nope.
And let me tell you, I get more flack from that than anything else I do.
Know what else I don't do? I don't tell grown adults how to live their lives. I don't lecture them, I don't rant and rave at them, I let them alone because it is their right to live their life as they see fit.