Broken11b:
When I told dad that I wanted a gun, he said that I needed to bring home a badge first. So I did.... I've been a rent-a-cop, among other things (think "armed programmer") for about 42 years. Married since 1975....
When I was dating, my LE connection tended to come up eventually. Probably the scanner in the car
.... My date usually presumed that I might be armed sometimes, if not "right now".... (I've carried essentially 24/7 since I pinned that badge on.) 'Course, in those days us rentals were a bit more respected, and LE-related gun ownership didn't make people as crazy as it does now. In short, never had a problem....
The problem today, of course, is that the date may have been brainwashed by her parents or school system, and jump out of the car when she finds out you know what a gun is.... Might as well bring that up early on.... Not to deny that anything is possible, but if she's not going to run with that, you probably should find somebody else.
(Here in OH, if you get stopped for a traffic violation or about any other Law Enforcement reason, and you're carrying, you MUST notify IMMEDIATELY. She'll find out real fast
.... If you're not carrying, this doesn't apply, but many LEO's don't know that, and many will ask "did you forget to tell me something?"....)
So much for that problem
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I can't make any suggestions, though - I've been out of the game for too long.... My daughter's former boyfriend had a shotgun when they started dating, and bought a couple of handguns (and an M4) before things melted down. Didn't bother her a bit. She's a shooter, but not interested in a license. He took the course, but never got the CHL for some reason.
One possibility is to schedule a date at a local range if you can work it in. Don't hand her the .500 though
- start with a .22. She may have some experience.... (My mom - who's 95 - would like to come to the range with me, but can't handle the steps. Her dad taught her to shoot around 1925.... One of her brothers was a pistol instructor for the Army during WWII. Back when they were issuing revolvers! Dad, btw, was a machine gunner at a CCC camp before the war, and probably qualified with about every one-person weapon in the inventory between 1938 and 1945. He was a medic....)
Best thing to do is try, I guess....
Regards,