Hey Deanimator, growing up in south Alabama, and now calling Wyoming home, I was raised, and have spent most of my adult, life referring to men and women as sir and ma'am. It's a sign of courtesy, manners, and common decency. If you are opposed to such a practice, that's up to you. But then don't whine and bitch when the officer DOES give you a ticket, with some of that "option" (yes, in most cases they have a CHOICE) because you're being a pompous ass. Being polite and courteous have helped me avoid a number of speeding tickets that I earned and well deserved. Was I kissing the officer's rear end? No, I didn't, nor was I trying to.
Addressing another person as sir or ma'am is a cultural issue in many parts of the country. Perhaps in your particular part of the Country politeness and courtesy are outdated and ancient. Well, in MY part of the Country, they're NOT. I like it, and PREFER it that way.
The officer that gave the originator of this thread a hard time doesn't deserve that respect, but only AFTER he showed his "colors". Perhaps loosing respect for other people in general is part of what is wrong with our society today.
Maybe you should look in the mirror a little more often, unless of course you're one of those folks that look in every one that you pass by, thinking how great and deserving you are of the world's respect.
Maybe revisiting the Golden Rule would be a good learning moment here: "Treat others as YOU would like to be treated". And no, I don't like people kissing my ass, but I do appreciate a little courtesy until I do something NOT to deserve it. Lighten up and get over yourself, you'll live longer.