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A few weeks ago, while at a party at a friend's house, the topic of discussion turned to guns. One person mentioned that I'd recently gotten my CHL (not strictly true -- I've completed the class, and am waiting for the license).
The homeowner asked me if I was carrying, and I said I wasn't, as I still didn't have my CHL.
He asked me if I would mind not carrying it in his house when I got it.
I said that wouldn't be a problem.
He said, "It's not you. I trust you. But people with guns make me uncomfortable."
I didn't get into a discussion with him about it. Next time he's at my place, I'll invite him to see the small but growing collection.
But here is my question: What does it mean, "I trust you, but people with guns make me uncomfortable?"
If he trusts me, he trusts me, right? If he doesn't trust me with a gun, he doesn't really trust me. Or, perhaps, he just doesn't know whether I am particularly responsible with a gun or not.
Or maybe he doesn't trust ANYBODY with a gun -- in which case, perhaps he doesn't trust the mechanical safety of the weapon not to accidentally fire unless the trigger is pulled. Or he subconsciously ascribes a will to act to firearms, and that this desire to be fired is somehow transferred to their owner?
I'm sure a lot of you have had discussions with friends on this matter.
The homeowner asked me if I was carrying, and I said I wasn't, as I still didn't have my CHL.
He asked me if I would mind not carrying it in his house when I got it.
I said that wouldn't be a problem.
He said, "It's not you. I trust you. But people with guns make me uncomfortable."
I didn't get into a discussion with him about it. Next time he's at my place, I'll invite him to see the small but growing collection.
But here is my question: What does it mean, "I trust you, but people with guns make me uncomfortable?"
If he trusts me, he trusts me, right? If he doesn't trust me with a gun, he doesn't really trust me. Or, perhaps, he just doesn't know whether I am particularly responsible with a gun or not.
Or maybe he doesn't trust ANYBODY with a gun -- in which case, perhaps he doesn't trust the mechanical safety of the weapon not to accidentally fire unless the trigger is pulled. Or he subconsciously ascribes a will to act to firearms, and that this desire to be fired is somehow transferred to their owner?
I'm sure a lot of you have had discussions with friends on this matter.