New shooter driving me nuts

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evan price

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I have a friend who I go shooting with sometimes. I've known this guy since Boy Scouts.

Well, my friend picked up a new girlfriend. She is not a shooter, but has at least shot once or twice before. We went shooting last year before the range got snowed in. She heard I had Sigs and when we got to the range she watned to shoot my Sigs, I mean she was like totally stoked and panting to shoot my Sigs.

Well, she shot them, and then didn't want to shoot anymore.

When asked why, she said that the guns weren't what she liked.

She is a beginner, she can get them near the paper, and she's trying.

It turns out she heard that the Sig P210 was about the best shooting pistol ever made. Somehow she has become fixated on Sig P210's. She now won't shoot anyhting else because the other guns are just not good enough. My Sigs are just consumer grade pistols for miltary or cops and not made as accurate as a Sig P210 and therefore she won't be able to shoot them with the level of accuracy she wants to.

Bear in mind, again, this is a NEW shooter who is lucky to hit the target.

In her opinion, it's not worth shooting anything else than a Sig P210 because she would just be learning bad habits she would have to unlearn, and why shoot something that is not going to let her perform to her expected levels? We try working with her on grip, riding the sear, trigger feel, stance, etc. and she really doesn't learn anything and blames her poor shooting on the fact that our guns are just basic military/police models with poor accuracy and if she had a Sig 210 it would be easy to hit the bullseye every time.

Nevermind I can empty a mag into a 3x5 card and she is lucky to get one on the card.

Don't get me wrong- a Sig P210 is a really really nice pistol. But it's kind of like somebody with no driver's license walking up to Roger Penske and saying they could drive in NASCAR and win if he just gives them a car.

It's getting to the point that I don't even want to go shooting with them anymore because all I get from her is gun snobbery about my "plebian" Sigs that really are not a Sig P210. She's obsessed about this. Last time we went out she shot maybe a couple rounds and sighed a lot and said she was just waiting to get what she wants.

My buddy says he's at his wits end with her regarding this- he likes Taurus, Ruger and Smith & Wessons and doesn't even own a Sig. She won't even pick up his guns because they are mass-market cheap models and it's not worth wasting ammo on shooting them, she says.

She even wants to sell her car (paid off Nissan) to buy a Sig P210 and show us what a real good pistol can do compared to our cheap mass market pistols. Bear in mind this is her only transportation, and she expects my buddy to freight her around after she sells her car to buy this pistol.

She says that when she gets the pistol she wants to get her CCW license, get another car, and leave it in the glove compartment for just in case.

What do I do now? I'd like to tell my buddy that she is a psycho and RUN AWAY but that's not cool.
I've been coming up with excuses not to go shooting already.
 
you know what's great about this situation?

the crazy girl isn't YOUR girlfriend and you can NOT shoot with her!

hooray for you!!

seriously though, just let the guy know that she's making it a lot less fun and he better do some shooting with her on his own for a while.
 
I'd like lock her in the trunk once you arrive at the range.
This will muffle her initial screams...

Then while at the back bumper, near trunk, tell this gals boyfriend, he has a gal crazier than a road tick, and if she behaves as she is, a CCW instructor is not going to pass her and deem her responsible to carry concealed.

Say this loud enough for crazy road tick chick in the trunk to hear of course.

Sorry, but this gal needs to be put over someone's knee and her butt blistered real good.
I'd mention that come to think of it as crazy road tick chick is in the trunk.

She has two choices.
1. Shut the hell up, grow up, and quit being a spoiled brat and learn responsible firearm safety and ownership

2. Continue to be a crazy road tick chick with someone else.

"Don't come crying to me if the CCW instructor does not pass you, or you wake up dead as you are too high and mighty for your own good."


Life is too short to hang with crazy road tick folks.
 
My adivce? Find some way to get a p210 in her hands. Renting finding someone you know who has one etc. and show her she still can't hit for **** with her "perfect" gun. I think it'll A. turn her off of shooting or B. Make her wise up.
 
She even wants to sell her car (paid off Nissan) to buy a Sig P210 and show us what a real good pistol can do compared to our cheap mass market pistols.

That is exactly what needs to happen. Once she figures out that it is *HER* and not the pistol's fault, maybe she'll shut the hell up and learn something from you guys...
 
Sounds like you've spent a lot of time and energy worrying about this. The girl is a twit. You've been making excuses to not shoot with your buddy. Obviously you have no problems shooting w/o him. Just tell him the truth that his obnoxious girlfriend has taken the fun out of shooting and you do not want to shoot with her. It's not a big deal. If the guy is a real friend he'll understand and life will go on.
 
There's really only one solution to this.

1) Let her sell her car to get a P210
2) Watch her get frusterated that she still cant shoot for beans
3) Life frusterations without a car and her poor performance
4) Eventually unloading the gun for cheap so she can buy another car.
5) Buy said P210 for cheap
 
Give it time, Evan, and keep a low profile as time passes. Unless your friend has found his one and only true love, in time she will become simply a spent passion and a fading memory.

I've learned through experience that the little quirks that couples adore in each other at first tend to grow into major annoyances over time unless there's a solid basis for the relationship. And it doesn't always take a lot of time for that to happen. Whatever you're seeing in her behavior are things your friend is likely to see as the relationship continues--unless, of course, he and she have more than infatuation goin for them.

What you want to do is keep your friend, I think. If so it's probably not a good idea to tell him the girl is a psycho or to show any animosity towards her. People in lust tend to resent the messenger who criticize their choices.
 
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the crazy girl isn't YOUR girlfriend
he has a gal crazier than a road tick
The girl is a twit.
She sounds like a fruit loop

Yeah, +1 to all of those.
Let her buy a Sig P210 and watch her fail. It's one thing to be High Road, but it's another when other people won't let you. I agree, she sounds like a spoiled idiot.

Just don't let her mangle a P210 with "aftermarket improvements."
 
evan price said:
It turns out she heard that the Sig P210 was about the best shooting pistol ever made. Somehow she has become fixated on Sig P210's. She now won't shoot anyhting else because the other guns are just not good enough.
I know someone she would be perfect for. :evil: A kindred spirit, as it were.
 
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Just don't let her mangle a P210 with "aftermarket improvements."

and good luck finding one, I've never seen one in person, or even on any online shops, though I haven't ever looked for one.

+1 leadhead!
 
Everyone has their preferences. The car guys are terrible at this. My ford will eat your chevy, you see the calvin stickers pissing on a ford.

Its just nonsense. Dont let it bother you. Tell her straight up, that its a learning curve.

If she is willing to spend $4000 on a Sig 210 there here is a great deal with 22 conversion no less.

http://www.gunbroker.com/Auction/ViewItem.asp?Item=92696098

How I see it , she ll never be able to buy a Sig 210. If she does, then be ready to cough up $2000 to buy it off her when she has to sell it to buy her car back !!!

The way I look at it, win win situation. She buys it, cant shoot it, has no more excuse, you buy a bad ass gun at huge discount because its used now !!!!

Or better yet, send it my way!!

And to those that think you can rent a Sig 210. I ve never seen one in person either except once. I dont know many shops that keep $3000 guns up for rent. But I am sure most of you didnt know that a 210 is that expensive.
 
I won't abide with those who exhibit make/manufacturer snobbery be it
firearms or vehicles or anything else that we humans have as tool users. I
have a friend with a 2000 Corvette - I've tried to talk him into going to a HIgh Performance Driving school Why? I've ridden with him in the RH seat
and it's a pity the car is wasted on his poor driving, won't do that anymore

How about mentioning the CZ 75B has a similiar slide to frame design and they are known as a economical way to experience what a 210 is like to shoot for this twit and if that doesn't work get your
buddy to buy her the little short red plaid skirt so it'll be
easier to give her the spanking she deserves.

just a thought...
 
Sounds like passive/aggressive behavior to me. You know, like she really isn't into it and is coming up with every excuse she can to not do it any more rather than just saying "nope, don't like that".
 
Sounds like this one gal a friend dated. Claimed to do all sorts of stunts on motorcycles. I always thought she was trying to make up for inequitites in her mind. Turns out dad didnt hug her enough or something according to my friend. Full blown alcoholic now, actually sort of sad. :( Some folks make up for something (anything) in their life like this gal with the 210. Cant argue with the good taste.
 
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