Son? Lol! Well, bless your little heart!
I think we’d be entering another taboo area talking about Nanny state and such but there is a good way to talk about these “this gun only” things and it’s by letting people know - 100% agree on that - that’s a rule of thumb with lots of provisos, which is why I been called out before, too - posting .38-44 loads for older Colt D-Frames. Colt used to condone the practice, then they didn’t.
If you’re recommending a load that isn’t verified by someone besides the mouse in your pocket, post it with the recommended warning. It’s in the forum rules. That’s all.
The OP is looking for a good hunting load and has been given some good ideas from actual printed sources. I wasn’t looking to make anyone mad, just reminding the OP and anyone reading this that those third tier loads might be “safe” in their guns, but they also might not. Safe or not, they will very likely wear them out quicker. That’s why I tell people, here’s what I do but, don’t do what I do cause it won’t work for you like it works for me.
“Son”. Not taking the High Road seriously are you?