Why would anyone suggest a Browning Hi-Power for a shooter with small hands?
Features of the BHP:
- just about the fattest 9mm grip that ever existed
- extremely heavy recoil spring
- very-difficult-to-reach safety lever
- horrible factory trigger
- frequently equipped with tiny sights
- expensive
I can hardly think of a worse choice for a diminutive novice.
Respectfully disagree:
The grip may be fat, compared to single stacks, but with the right grip panels (often this means the stock plastic panels) it is not at all fat when compared to other double stacks, and the short front to rear measurement makes it ideal for many small handed shooters. Better than other double stacks, and most single stacks. Smaller than a 1911, that she already likes.
The MKII HP introduced the exended ambi safety that all current HPs have. That is no longer an issue, and hasn't been for at least 3 decades.
Current production HPs have excellent sights, and have had since the MKIII version was introduced in 1989.
Admitedly HP triggers aren't the best SA trigger out there, but are far better than many DA triggers, and can easily be improved by either removal of the MDS, or polishing the front face of the mags, or using Mecgar mags that come polished.
Yes, compared to plastic guns, and metal guns with lots of MIM componants they are pricey. They are priced about the same as any pistol made with compareable quality componants.
To the OP:The HP doesn't fit your criteria, as it is a double stack. But it's not nearly as far off as some would have you believe.
That said, I would recommend a Sig P225/P6. Great gun that fits your criteria. Best would be have your wife try as many models as possible, and let her decide.