So what Is The Gun You Always Come Back To?
Depends on what I need a handgun for at the time ...
When it comes to large defensive pistols, it's the 1911. Preferably Colt (I presently own 4 Colts), although my SW1911SC 5" has revealed itself to be an amazingly accurate and very reliable pistol, so far.
When it comes to smaller defensive pistols which can be more easily carried and concealed, it's the 3913. I have smaller pistols, including smaller pistols with more magazine capacity ... but every time I take the 3913 to the range and run it through a qualification course, or simply go through several boxes of ammunition for practice, I remember why it became my primary off-duty weapon for so long.
When it comes to backwoods protection, it's a revolver.