The Good...The Bad :-(

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You have my pity.Letting go a great dog is very painful.However,if you really love them,you just have to put an end to their suffering.I put our 2 dogs down on the same day 2 years ago because of age and health issues.I still miss them and talk about them all the time.
 
I am sorry for your loss...I have had my share ( and as yet have not been able to re-fill the dog shaped spaces in my life);and know it to be very hard.
FWIIW,iI believe that what we love,loves us back ...and if they leave before us;it is only to "leave a light on for us" when we catch up.
 
Well, she's laying by my chair as I write this. Solemn and peaceful in her own way. Drank a little water today, but that's it - I don't sense that she is in a lot of pain. She and I know the time is near..
I dug the grave and built the coffin today while she sat out front overlooking her domain - best she could anyway with those cloudy old eyes. It was a warm, sunny day in upstate NY - hint of spring in the air. I laid down with her under the cedar in the shade and talked about the past. I remember driving with my buddy Paul, to York Pa. 13 yrs ago to pickup the bundle of yellow fur - wrinkled face like a basset and full of life.
We have shared much in those years, and I have a day or so left to stroke her full neck and hold her close, listening to her shallow breath emitted from the gray muzzle.
I thought about my youngest son Jason, he was 8 when we brought her home. Now Jay is 21. Topaz saw both my sons through the growing up years - now they are men, fine ones at that. I told her thanks, she has done her job well, never asking for much..just to be with us and part of the family. She certainly is part, a big part, and will always be with us.
To clear my head I got the motorcycle out of the barn, first time this season. Went for a ride and caught up with Paul - we rode the enduros on the back roads. Stopped at a nice overlook of the valley and had a cigar in honor of Topaz. Like many things in my life, Paul was there. Been best buddies since Jr high. He's a German Shepard man. Over the years he has had several and just lost Leo, one of his favorites - last summer, so he is well aware of what I am going thru.
He wasn't getting another... now his latest is Greta - a beautiful female he rescued that goes to work each day in his truck. May be a message in that...
She's sleeping peacefully now.
I'll check back from time to time - really appreciate your thoughts.
 
I am somewhat surprised that a moderator hasn't closed this thread for lack of "general gun" topic, but I am appreciative that it hasn't been. Men in this day and time seem to have a hard time showing the compassion that dwells in all of us, if we just dig down far enough. Family dogs seem to bring out some of the good character of men that maybe gives some support to the concept that we are "made in God's image", even if we do bury it under cynicism, bravado, selfishness, and a few other man-made flaws.

Thank you for sharing,
 
Hopefully, I can keep my eyes dry enough to offer this---

He is your friend,
your partner,
your defender,
your dog.

You are his life,
his love,
his leader.

He will be yours,
faithful and true,
to the last beat of his heart.

You owe it to him
to be worthy of
such devotion.
 
Condolensces on the loss of your dog, I know your pain and feel deeply for you. I wonder when the moderators are gonna lock this thread?????They locked mine when I announced the birth of my son and even mentioned buying new guns for him..................waiting on the lock.
 
I also am a dog owner and have lost a number over the years so I can relate to your pain. I have thought about the many members of the family that have gone on ahead and have pondered their many qualities.

Dog spelled backwards is God. DOG/GOD While I'm not saying that dogs are God, I do believe that God gave them to man as a reflection of His never ending and unconditional love.

What other animal has an uncoditional love like the dog? You can punish them, yell at them and even ignore them but when you call them they always come back wagging their tails, just happy to be near you. There is no other animal that is as loyal, patient and loving as a dog.

After my 7 1/2 year old male Boxer had to be put down with cardio myopathy my wife and I decided, much like you, that it wouldn't be good to get another. That lasted about 1-2 months.

My wife saw an ad in the paper about Boxer pups being for sale and she said: Let's just go look and see what they look like, we don't have to get one, I just want to look at them.

When we got there they were all spoken for except for one female. She was the only one up and running around. My wife picked her up and when I saw the look in her eyes as that puppy was excitedly licking her face I knew it was time to open my wallet and put a deposit down. :)

We picked her up a couple of weeks later when she was weaned. Her name is Sugar Rey. We've had her now for 5 yrs. and we love her dearly. I guess what I'm trying to say is: Never say never! As a long time dog owner I can't imagine my life without one of the best creatures that God ever made.

My prayers are with you!
 
sorry to hear that man, and yea just wanna share what we (me and wife) went through last year and that we understand the whole thing.

Anyway someone had given a male puppy (schnauzer and terrier mix) named Bibi to her parents (she was living with them before we bought a house). They have been dog people but never had one since they moved here 10 years ago until now. Well, they lived in a townhome complex and had no pets allowed policy so they tried best to hide him. It all went well until a neighbor ratted them out. So the solution is to put him in my place until their house is built (at this time, their "real" house is 2 months away from being completed). My place is my uncle's house inhabited by my grandparents, my sister, and 2 male cousins. We have a female lab/ collie mix there named Cookie so it would be a good companion for Bibi.

Now my wife never liked any animals, but she opened up to him.He's a good, loyal dog and always know when to bark at questionable people - they lived in a not so good area, where my wife was robbed at her doorstep. Anyway Her parents took him to his daily walk and he was just adorable. But he can't stay with them anymore.

So he ended up in my place. I took care of him until the inevitable happenned. My grandpa had a minor heart attack and had severe pneumonia. He fell off his bed and can;t get up. My grandma dialed 911 and in the midst of the confusion didn't think of locking up the dogs in the bathroom. All the kids were out at school and work (me). Now my lab/ collie mix Cookie had been trained not to get out of the house unless we have a leash on her. But not Bibi since it's been only 2 weeks since I got him in. When paramedics came and unload the stretcher and doing their thing, Bibi ran away.

At work, I got a phone call from my crying wife saying someone ran over him. I was like it can't be. Then she gave me the number to the guy who reported it. He said he's in real bad shape. I said i'll be there in a bit. I asked my boss to let me go to see my gramps and my dog. I called the guy and he said he's passed. I was shocked and upset that i couldn't be with him when he passed, that he spent his last moments with a stranger, albeit a good one. After making sure my gramps had been taken care off, i met up with my aunt (she picked up Bibi). That's when reality hits. Her parents were already there too and the mom was crying real bad. Couldn't stop the tears from coming. That same night, we drove to a vet and had him cremated. It was just hard seeing him there. It was only a short time since we had him but he's part of the family and made a positive impact to out household. Parents in law got his ashes, me and wife kept his paw print. Wife was crying for 2 weeks.

My Gramps OTOH held out for 10 days. Antibiotics couldn't fight back his pneumonia. So after 10 days, the hospital refused to continue giving him medications so we decided to let him under hopsice care at our house. He passed away at our house on his bed the same night he was put back in his house, peaceful.

Anyway after our house is finished, had our wedding (one of them folks who got married first, then have the wedding later), then on to our honeymoon, our parents gave us a homecoming present; A new puppy (Schnauzer and Chihuahua mix) that we named Brownie. They got him from the same people who gave them Bibi. He got more of a fight in him and definitely thinks he's number one when I'm not around ( gives my wife a lot of headache). After having Brownie, let's just say if a kid said "my dog ate my homework",.. I'd believe him in a hearbeat.
 
Dogs and Hearts

dalv...as a dyed-in-the-wool dog lover and indiscriminate rescuer of our best friends...I have 16 here...you have my deepest sympathy. Only those who have had a dog get tangled up in their heartstrings can truly understand. I lost two of my Collies last year in a span of just under 8 months...brothers from the same litter. I think of them all the time and miss them more than I can express.

My sigline should explain it well.

It's time for this one to close. Be at peace with your loss, and keep her memories alive in your heart...and she'll always be close by.

Sincerely,

Johnny
 
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