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This was from the AR15.com website. Would you have handled it differently? How?


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Many of you have asked me some great questions concerning the incident I was in last October and expressed interest in the whole story. Well, after talking to the prosecuting attorney, I was told that for interviews and such, just stick to the facts, so here goes...This is a long read so bear with me please.

Back story: Several friends and I meet on Tues nights at the office of a few lawyers here in town for the purpose of social interaction, maybe have a couple drinks, a good cigar and good conversation. I had missed the last couple meetings leading up to the one on Oct. 13 but promised the guy who organized the group that I would be showing up for this one. Well, I forgot and was watching TV while the wife was helping one of my sons with a science project on electricity and circuits. They couldn't get the thing to work so I got volunteered to go to Wal-Mart to get a new light bulb and battery.

On the way to Wal-Mart, I realized/remembered that I had removed my gun/holster earlier that day to go to the gym at lunch time and laid it on my desk. I debated with myself for a minute about whether or not to spend the extra 10 minutes to run down to the office to arm myself against the masses there at 9:30 at night. Common sense prevailed and I made the extra stop and was on my way. (Crucial turning point #1 of the night)

I got to Wally World and had just collected my items when the cell phone rang. For whatever reason, the first thing that popped in my head was "Oh ****, this is Tues night and I bet it's my buddy calling me to see where I'm at. It turned out that it was my wife who told me that they had gotten the current bulb and battery to work and that I didn't need to bring new ones home. I told her about having forgotten my promise to join up with the Tues night guys and checked with her to make sure it was ok if I just headed on over there. She was fine with it and so I put my stuff back and headed over to the buddy's office.

When I got to the lawyer's office, there were five of my friends outside having a drink, enjoying their cigars and talking in the carport area on the left side of the building. I said hi to them and asked where Brian was. They said he was inside in his office, so I went in and we bull ****ted for the next half hour or so. We decided that we should probably go back out and join the rest of the guys and headed out the door.

We were out there for maybe a minute when a guy walked up to our group (not uncommon to have the neighbors come by and chat as there are also houses and apartments in this area) wearing a hooded sweatshirt with the hood up and drawn tight and a scarf or balaclava covering everything but his eyes. Not too uncommon, as it was rather cold and rainy that night. What was uncommon was that he was holding a stainless steel revolver at his side. At first I thought it was a joke that one of the guys had set up. I asked "Can we help you?" I can't remember exactly what he said as he raised the revolver up and pointed it at the group of us, except for him telling us to drop whatever we had in our hands and something along the lines of "this is a robbery." He told us that we were going inside and that if any of us made a move, he would shoot us. I was the last person to walk up the two steps of the side door into the conference room and evidently wasn't moving fast enough for him. He put the muzzle in my back and was pushing me forward telling me to hurry up. In my infinite wisdom, I turned my head toward him and told him to quit shoving me, that I couldn't go any faster than the guy in front of me. In my head, almost like a mantra, there was an alarm going off saying "This is why you carry, this is why you carry this is why you carry."

Once we were inside, he told us to get on the floor face down, on the other side of the conference table. When he made us lay down, I picked the point farthest away from him, hoping to buy some time before he got to me. Once he had us down, he instructed us to take out our wallets, watches, jewelry, etc. He was distracted for just a couple seconds when he was getting one of our guys up to carry the plastic bag. Under the guise of getting my wallet out, I very carefully, while watching him the whole time, removed the 1911 from the IWB holster and hid it under my chest. He was keeping a close watch on us almost the entire time and always had the revolver either on someone or pointed directly at someone. I was watching for it and I really did not have an earlier opportunity for a shot without risking my friends' lives further or creating a hostage situation, which I would have been ill equipped to handle.

For whatever reason, maybe because I mouthed off to him earlier, I don't know, but he only collected from one or two people before walking back to where I was. He saw that I did not have a wallet or anything waiting for him and while standing over me, pulled my leather jacket and shirt up to take my wallet from my back pocket. That is when he found my Milt Sparks IWB holster, now devoid of a firearm. He said something to the effect of "Well well well, what do we have here? Where's the gun?" I told him I didn't have it on me. He repeated the question and said that I wouldn't have a holster if there was no gun. I swore that I didn't have it on me and that I'd left it in my vehicle since I might have a drink or two while I was there. He didn't believe me and told me to get up. He decided to assist me by grabbing onto my jacket with his left hand and pull me up. As I pushed myself up as well, I slid my hands under my chest to grab my pistol.

When he pulled me up, he was at my 5 O'clock position. I was still trying to keep him from seeing my gun until I was able to turn into him, so when I came up, I basically had my right hand (holding the pistol) tight to my stomach/chest with the muzzle pointed in the direction of my left shoulder. I don't know why I did that, except to conceal it and maybe so he couldn't take it away from me. I started turning to my right, into him, flipping the safety at some point along the way. He either saw the gun or heard the safety click as I had turned into him enough for him to be at my 3 O'clock and shoved his revolver inside my open jacket against my stomach and fired the first round. Luckily, his angle was off and it only grazed my stomach. Unluckily, I had my left hand tucked against my left side and the round passed through my palm and out the base of my thumb at my wrist.

I continued turning toward him while lowering my pistol to return fire, which evidently put the right hand directly in the line of fire as he squeezed off another round. I can only assume that my hand blocked the shot from hitting my stomach or chest as we were practically face to face at that point. It took me just a second to recover and he started retreating toward the door, backing away from me and shooting. I got two shots off as he was backing away, both missing him. I had the little problem with the next round not going off, thinking I had a jam, I ducked behind the table to clear the gun and yelled for everyone to stay down. I looked down and saw how bad my hands were as I cleared the round out, and stood back up to continue fire. (Looking back on it, I think I realized that I wasn't getting a good grip due to the screwed up hand and neglected to engage the grip safety) He had his back to the door by now and we exchanged a couple more shots (which is when I scored my hit and near miss) until his revolver hit on spent rounds. I will NEVER forget that. There were three clicks. He realized he was out of ammo and was out the door before I could get another shot off. Even in the heat of the moment, I did not attempt to shoot him in the back or pursue him.

I don't know how I retained the gun after being hit in the strong hand, just as I don't know how I made my hands work to clear the round. I just did. It was a combination of adrenaline, survival instinct and the grace of God. I was completely on automatic. The threat was still there and I couldn't stop until it was gone. One of the other guys finally jumped up after the BG went out the door and locked it so he couldn't reload and come back in. I remember seeing him lock the door and finally sat down on the floor, laid my gun down and started looking at the blood pouring out of my hands. A few of the other guys came over to help me and apply pressure to the wounds while another called 911. I made them repeat to me a few times that everyone else was ok and that no one else had been hit. One of the guys that had been there, told me that it was almost scary how lucid and calm that I stayed the entire time while we waited for the ambulance to arrive. It was also discovered at this time that I'd been shot right above my left pectoral muscle. I don't even recall when that happened.

I'm probably repeating myself from the other posts I've made, in saying this, but it was very surreal and real all rolled into one at the same time. In reality, the whole exchange from the first shot probably didn't last more than 30-40 seconds. I'm only saying that long because of the time I took clearing the chamber. It may have still been less than that. From start to finish, meaning when the guy showed up outside to the time when he left took almost exactly 7 minutes.

There you have it. If you've got questions, I'll do my best to answer them. I didn't post this to be a look at me or I'm a bad ass or anything else. I just thought that if anyone could benefit in even the smallest way from my incident and possibly help, then I would like to turn a ****** encounter into a positive thing.

God Bless you all and thank you so much for the support that you've shown me and my family since this first happened. I couldn't ask for a better group of people to call my extended family and friends.

Justin

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This link should take you to some of the actual articles as well as pictures of his wounds.

http://forums.1911forum.com/showthread.php?t=257561
 
Of course, it's impossible to know what we would've done not being there, but I have a big problem with being proned out on the floor by some dumb cluck with a gun.

I don't believe him when he says, "do what I say and no one will get hurt," as if I could trust the guy threatening me with deadly force.

I suspect that there was a moment when the good guy could've drawn his gun, but was understandably reluctant to do so.

He's lucky the perp didn't kill him upon discovering the empty holster.

Generally speaking, a sudden, violent application of deadly force is the best way to handle such things. But hardly anyone is ready, or willing, to do that. I blame the courts, tv and the media for creating a "oh, crap, I could get in serious trouble if I defended my life" atmosphere.
 
I think he did what most sensible people would do: Sensibly, most of us don't want to apply deadly force to a situation. He tried to stick it out without going john wayne, making sensible decisions until he was forced into a last second showdown with the BG. A few may say they would do XYZ, but until we've got a gun pointed at us, its all sunday morning quaterbacking.
It also goes to show how a SD situation is never clean, even in a clear cut case like this. The BG walked up, gun in hand and already had the drop on them.
 
until he was forced into a last second showdown with the BG.

This is hardly the best time to begin any showdown, as the badguy controls the "when."

I'd prefer to control the "when," and act with speed and decisiveness at the earliest opportunity.

From the story, it appears that upon seeing the badguy with gun in hand, a careful move to my own gun would perhaps allow a 1/2 second draw to first shot. (this is something I've practiced and timed) Since there were several goodguys present, the badguy couldn't possibly watch them all closely. It shouldn't be too hard to find a 1/2 second window......but again, it's not in the nature of most folks to act that decisively with deadly intent.
 
He's lucky the perp didn't kill him upon discovering the empty holster.

Generally speaking, a sudden, violent application of deadly force is the best way to handle such things.

I had the same two thoughts. From my QB position, I would have tried to act sooner.
 
In situations like this I can't help but wonder if the OP could have seen the perp sooner when he was further away and perhaps had not yet drawn his gun if the OP had been more alert. I suspect that he could have but I know from some experiences of my own that most of us are not always that observant.

Had the perp been seen earlier it could have given the OP a better option to engage the perp then the way it actually went down.

Also, was the OP the only one armed at the time? I suspect that if one of the others had been armed then at the time the perp discovered the empty holster on the OP that they could have had a chance to engage the perp then.
 
...when a guy walked up to our group (not uncommon to have the neighbors come by and chat as there are also houses and apartments in this area) wearing a hooded sweatshirt with the hood up and drawn tight and a scarf or balaclava covering everything but his eyes. Not too uncommon, as it was rather cold and rainy that night. What was uncommon was that he was holding a stainless steel revolver at his side. At first I thought it was a joke that one of the guys had set up. I asked "Can we help you?"

One of the most dangerous things that can work against our own self preservation is the disbelief in what is occuring and the unconscious desire to explain away circumstances that we should plainly recognize as being out of the ordinary. Many police officers and private citizens alike are killed every year because they failed to recognize the severity of a situation that was unfolding before them.

Nobody ever wants to assume the worst but we cannot ignore reality either. We cannot have an "this can't be happening to me attitude." We must have the attitude of it is going to happen to me at some point and I am going to recognize it when it does.

If you assume that somebody walking up to you is just like the neighbors that have done it before you are behind the power curve. If you explain away the drawn tight hood you are setting yourself up for failure. That's a lot to assume when lives are on the line.

Sure, most situations are truly harmless but it is much easier to de-escalate your mental condition than it is to be thrust into a situation you could have been prepared for but were not.

I find that there is a lot of risk in quarterbacking an incident after the fact without the benefit of a full understanding, which we still don't have of this situation, but I would assert that any hesitation on the part of the defender may very well have devastating consequences in the form of lives lost to you, your loved ones, other intended victims, and innocent bystanders.

Never forget that surviving a life threatening situation is only based in small part on your abilities with that firearm. Your psychological mindset is almost always going to be the best tool in your box.

Based on the information that was provided, I believe that action should have been taken much sooner and that it is by the grace of God that he was not injured to a worse degree and others were not killed. The advantage was clearly handed to the assailant from the first moment. It does not appear that this had to be the case. There is a time to exercise tactical patience in confronting a threat. Just the same, you should not fail to take action when the situation calls for immediate action.
 
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IMO this is yet another example of the importance of situational awareness.


We were out there for maybe a minute when a guy walked up to our group (not uncommon to have the neighbors come by and chat as there are also houses and apartments in this area) wearing a hooded sweatshirt with the hood up and drawn tight and a scarf or balaclava covering everything but his eyes. Not too uncommon, as it was rather cold and rainy that night. What was uncommon was that he was holding a stainless steel revolver at his side.

Some things about his accounting that always leave me at a higher level of awareness / suspicion:


Apartments? Low income apartments perhaps?

ANYONE wearing a hooded sweatshirt gets the stink eye from me. Why? Because it is part of the typical "ghetto" uniform that the criminal culture, and the wannabee's, find so popular. If it is cold enough that one would want to cover their face with a scarf or balaclava, than it is too cold for simply a hoodie imo.

An individual approaching with a revolver at their side is not going to walk naturally, and should trigger some warning signs.

While it is always easy to examine events in the past, the thing I take away most from this story is the importance of situational awareness.
 
This is hardly the best time to begin any showdown, as the badguy controls the "when."

I'd prefer to control the "when," and act with speed and decisiveness at the earliest opportunity.

Generally speaking, the BG usually decides the "when". We will always be left reacting to the situation as it presents itself from that point forward.
I agree that the best we can strive to do is try and make the decision on when we would react before being forced to react.
 
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(which is when I scored my hit and near miss)

Am I to believe by this, the robber was in fact shot?
What was the extent of that effect?
Did this lead to a hospital report, and subsequent arrest?
 
ANYONE wearing a hooded sweatshirt gets the stink eye from me. Why? Because it is part of the typical "ghetto" uniform that the criminal culture, and the wannabee's, find so popular. If it is cold enough that one would want to cover their face with a scarf or balaclava, than it is too cold for simply a hoodie imo.

Yeah! Just look at all those alarm company commercials. Every break in is perpatrated by a guy in a hoodie!

Oh crap!!! I guess I am screwed- I wear a hoodie 95% of the time in the winter... :eek: :neener:
 
Generally speaking, the BG usually decides the "when". We will always be left reacting to the situation as it presents itself from that point forward.

The badguy may be able to decide the "when" of the confrontation, but if we let him also decide the "when" of the showdown, then we're really behind the curve. It was the "showdown" part I was addressing, not the confrontation.
 
It is unfortunate that the victim who was shot by the bad guy, did not kill him. With a wound in the bad guy's hand and a jail sentence, once the bad guy gets out of prison, he'll continue robbing people. More than likely, he learned a lesson: shoot first and don't take a chance of being shot by an honest citizen with a CCW. Odds are some innocent citizen is going to be killed by that cretin.

Monday morning quarterbacking here:

Considering what was posted, that the robber was herding them back into the building, I think I would have tried to be first through the door while others came in behind. By then stepping to the right or left in the room, out of sight of the robber, I could have drawn and be waiting until he appeared, then immediately shot him.

But, for the victim, the cards fell as they fell and he was directly in front of the robber, so no chance to step out of sight to get a shot.

Nevertheless, all praise for the victim. He fought back! Glad he was not hurt more than he was, and managed to get one bullet in the bad guy, and no one else was hurt.

Some good lessons in his recounting of what happened to him.

L.W.
 
He's a brave guy twice: once for engaging under way less than ideal conditions, and once again for airing the whole sordid mess out for all of us in the online community to learn from. I'm glad his forum buddies chipped in and bought him a new 1911, and I'm glad he survived and gained a no true bill.

I agree, we probably have not heard the last of the felon in the hoodie, but at least he will avoid *that* law office from now on....
 
This thread raises a lot of questions in my mind. The [relatively] positive end to the story weighed a lot on Lady Luck it seems, having the first shots not hit any vital organs.

Perhaps the OP did some things that attracted too much attention to himself and set off alarms in the crook's mind?:
For whatever reason, maybe because I mouthed off to him earlier, I don't know, but he only collected from one or two people before walking back to where I was.

Or he noticed that the OP was fumbling with something suspicious?


Apparently sharp Situational Awareness and decisive mindset are more influential on the outcome than what or if you are carrying.

his revolver hit on spent rounds
This is one case of 6 rounds not being enough to finish a fight. This time it's the BG that ran out of rounds before the fight was over, but it could easily be the other way around. Are 6 really enough?
 
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Hey JoeSlomo, I wear a hoodie in the winter and the fall!

No logos or pictures on it though. I also never use the hood. Not even when it's a torrential downpour.
I just have something against umbrellas and hoods, on raincoats or hoodies. I also refuse to go into the bus shelters.
Funny story, I was waiting for the bus and I'm standing there in the rain, really heavy rain too, and this a couple walks into the bus shelter while I'm by the curb. I'm about three feet from the shelter and there's plenty of room inside, and from behind me I hear "Hey, aren't you going to come inside?" and I turn around and say "No."
Them: Why not?
Me: I don't like bus shelters.
Them: You mean you'd rather stand in the rain?
Me: Well, yeah, I guess so.
Them: There's plenty of room.
Me: No thanks.

Then both of them glanced at each other, and started walking away briskly without even waiting for their bus!
 
I'm torn between thinking maybe the guy waited a little too long to act, waited until the bad guy had too much control over them, or maybe he did what he had to do to draw his gun in a non-obvious manner that wouldn't get him shot immediately.
 
Some things about his accounting that always leave me at a higher level of awareness / suspicion:


Apartments? Low income apartments perhaps?

ANYONE wearing a hooded sweatshirt gets the stink eye from me. Why? Because it is part of the typical "ghetto" uniform that the criminal culture, and the wannabee's, find so popular. If it is cold enough that one would want to cover their face with a scarf or balaclava, than it is too cold for simply a hoodie imo.

An individual approaching with a revolver at their side is not going to walk naturally, and should trigger some warning signs.

While it is always easy to examine events in the past, the thing I take away most from this story is the importance of situational awareness.

Im the same way, they get my attentive eye, you should stay in the condition yellow, meaning you are alert and prepared to handle a situation like this, not expecting any one particaular threat, but not day dreaming either.
 
Everybody is damn lucky to be alive, the perp would've most likely eliminated any witnesses....second guessing Blitz 308 is insulting and pointless. Hope you are well on your way to a full recovery, by the way your companions DO owe you their lives. Sounds like the perp knew you guys would be there, the whole scenario feels premeditated.
 
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This is a real-world situation. Ugly, confusing, and violent. There is no point in 2nd guessing or saying "what I would have done" b/c none of us were there. All the Wednesday night IPSA get togethers become irrelevant when the threat is suddenly in your face.

The elapsed time from when he recognized the revolver to when the BG announced the robbery was probably less than a second. Denial is a very powerful human emotion even for people who have had a lot of training.
 
Using the convenience of perfect hindsight, I would have preferred to take a grip on my pistol when I saw hoodie man approach the group. Where I am, someone looking like that is not a neighbor. Being herded back into the house would have sent off huge alarm bells, too many stories of murders starting like this.
 
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