Norinco982lover
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I would like to ask your opinion on a situation that came up between me and my wife the other night.
We were sitting in the Living Room of our 4-plex (i'm on the top floor) watching a movie with my wife's 19 year old sister and also my downstairs neighbor (he is 23). It was about 10pm and rather nice outside so we had left the door outside open and left the screendoor shut(doesn't lock). Our upstairs neighbor had been robbed last week so even though we were in a decent neighborhood I still did not feel comfortable with the door open that late at night so I placed my CZ-75 beside me on the back of the cushion on the couch. It was inches from my arm and I felt perfectly safe doing this because I had cleared it before I put the mag in and had left it with nothing in the chamber.
Nobody noticed the pistol until the end of the movie when my wife came up off the floor to sit with me on the couch. She was sitting positioned so that her head was almost resting on the pistol but she was not touching it. I mentioned to her that she might not want to push her head back all the way because the pistol was there and she immediately began to scold me for having a gun with me in the living room. I told her that it did not have a round in the chamber and was perfectly safe and she did not care. Needless to say it was slightly embaressing for me but I did stand my ground and keep the gun in my waistband for the remainder of the evening.
Now I have taken my wife shooting several times and she seems to enjoy it but why does she not trust me with a gun? I am very responsible and take great care in following all the rules of gun safety (which I have explained to her as well). Am i paranoid to have a pistol at hand late at night with the door open or should I have just left it in its place by the nightstand?
fyi: I am 20 my wife is 21 (we are both extremely responsible individuals, no alcohol, etc.)
We were sitting in the Living Room of our 4-plex (i'm on the top floor) watching a movie with my wife's 19 year old sister and also my downstairs neighbor (he is 23). It was about 10pm and rather nice outside so we had left the door outside open and left the screendoor shut(doesn't lock). Our upstairs neighbor had been robbed last week so even though we were in a decent neighborhood I still did not feel comfortable with the door open that late at night so I placed my CZ-75 beside me on the back of the cushion on the couch. It was inches from my arm and I felt perfectly safe doing this because I had cleared it before I put the mag in and had left it with nothing in the chamber.
Nobody noticed the pistol until the end of the movie when my wife came up off the floor to sit with me on the couch. She was sitting positioned so that her head was almost resting on the pistol but she was not touching it. I mentioned to her that she might not want to push her head back all the way because the pistol was there and she immediately began to scold me for having a gun with me in the living room. I told her that it did not have a round in the chamber and was perfectly safe and she did not care. Needless to say it was slightly embaressing for me but I did stand my ground and keep the gun in my waistband for the remainder of the evening.
Now I have taken my wife shooting several times and she seems to enjoy it but why does she not trust me with a gun? I am very responsible and take great care in following all the rules of gun safety (which I have explained to her as well). Am i paranoid to have a pistol at hand late at night with the door open or should I have just left it in its place by the nightstand?
fyi: I am 20 my wife is 21 (we are both extremely responsible individuals, no alcohol, etc.)