Great post, pax!
My fiance read this thread with me, actually, and we agreed about most everything you said, except one thing... hence, my question:
What if your gf/wife
wants you to be the only one to teach her to use firearms? In my case, she's not ready for concealed carry, when she is she'll let me know. She's just learning about guns, and I asked if she would like a professional instructor of her own to teach her how to shoot. She shot the idea down immediately (no pun intended), and said she wanted to continue learning with me acting as teacher. Also, she is a very good listener, and very independant at the range (i.e., clearing malfunctions on her own once taught how). When I do point out flinching or other bad habits, she works hard to correct them, and she also never takes things I say personally. In general, I do understand why it's generally not a good idea to teach your girlfriend/wife to use firearms for most couples. All couples aren't the same though. So, I guess what I am asking (in detail) is:
Is it still a bad idea to act as instructor if:
a.) She has expressed that that's what she wants
b.) She feels more comfortable learning with her boyfriend/husband than a stranger
c.) She understands what you say and why when it comes to mistakes/bad habits, and doesn't take it personally or get frustrated?
I'm not saying we never argue, we just never argue about guns
I'm lucky in the fact that I have a girl who has learned to love firearms, and has a serious desire to learn everything she can about guns/shooting.
Thanks again for the thoughtful, well written point of view.