1) stop with the CCW thing until your wife is more comfortable. Unless you have a specific threat in mind (i.e. you are in the jewelry trade or have received death threats) this would be a reasonable course of action. Yeah, I know it's your right but the chances of you needing a gun while in public over the next few months (while you work the PR angles with the wife) are about 0.0000001%
As a physician and CEO it sounds as though you are, if not wealthy, at least pretty well off. The best part about being well off is that it tends to isolate you from the seedier parts of society. It also enables you to delegate many menial tasks to someone else - toilet clogged, call a plumber. Car runs rough, call a mechanic. Or just buy another. You can have groceries delivered or meals cooked for you. You never have to get your "hands dirty". All this is great but it tends to color one's perception about self-reliance, which is the reason many self-reliant people elect to carry.
For your wife guns are repugnant. They have no place in her clean and predictable world of breakfast meetings with bottled water served by eager assistants. After the evening workout at the health club, she's accustomed to driving her late model Lexus into your three car garage then relieving your baby's nanny. The thought of stopping off at the range for a half hour to hone her skills just doesn't compute. That's cowboy stuff.
It can be very difficult to understand that there is another world beyond yours. It's much more common, but you never see it or have to think about it. That's the world from which violent predators emerge. They would not understand your world any more than you could understand theirs. When their world intersects with yours, you may need to get your "hands dirty". Quick.
Utterly ludicrous position. First, check your math. That is one in ten trillion. If that were a true statement, no-one in the history of the universe ever needed, or ever will need, a gun.
If you buy the "guns used 2.5 million times per year to prevent crime, most often without firing a shot", then the true average is more like one in ten.
women will listen to each other.
I feel that I now have complete control of the academic aspect of the debate. I also told her that I am documenting the dates when she verbally abuses me--calling me "mentally ill," for going about armed.
Here is how I have won similar discussion and arguments:
1 I do not carry a gun because I think I am going to be in a gun fight. If I knew I was going to be in a gun fight, I would endeavor not to be there, because the best way to win a gun fight is to survive, and the best way to do that is not to get in gun fights. I carry a gun because I don't know what will happen, and I choose to be prepared.
2 Your odds of being killed in an assault are 1 in 211. Your odds of being killed in a car accident are 1 in 228, yet you are considered foolish if you decline to wear a seatbelt. Your odds of being killed in a fire are 1 in 1471, yet most of us have fire extinguishers.
Dying isn't the only hazard. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and the U.S. Department of Justice, your lifetime odds of being a victim of violent crime are 1 out of 2. Maybe they will be nice and they won't kill you. Maybe they will be nice and only leave you maimed, incapable of going to work and confined to a hospital bed.
In the United States, police average an 8 minute response to a call for a violent crime, so calling the police will frequently result in them arriving AFTER the crime is over.
You can either rely on the mercy of a criminal willing to kill you over the $23 in your wallet, rely on a police officer that will be here in 6 to 8 minutes, or you can rely on yourself and carry a gun.
Some incidents have done the same for my family. Since I brought the first handgun home, I have done a lot of research on this and other boards. I've also learned a lot on Pax's corneredcat.com. Since then I have made sure to point out every instance of violent crime in our area (I don't often watch the news, but usually hear about stuff in my neighborhood on this board). As my wife has come to see how dangerous South Florida is, it has been a lot better. I've actually gotten my wife to go shooting with me, and I think she may be coming around on getting her own CCW... The trick is patience, and strategic conversations on the facts of how dangerous the world is...A few incidents of "close-to-home" violence got my whole family more interested in firearms.
Here is how I have won similar discussion and arguments:
1 I do not carry a gun because I think I am going to be in a gun fight. If I knew I was going to be in a gun fight, I would endeavor not to be there, because the best way to win a gun fight is to survive, and the best way to do that is not to get in gun fights. I carry a gun because I don't know what will happen, and I choose to be prepared.
2 Your odds of being killed in an assault are 1 in 211. Your odds of being killed in a car accident are 1 in 228, yet you are considered foolish if you decline to wear a seatbelt. Your odds of being killed in a fire are 1 in 1471, yet most of us have fire extinguishers.
Dying isn't the only hazard. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention and the U.S. Department of Justice, your lifetime odds of being a victim of violent crime are 1 out of 2. Maybe they will be nice and they won't kill you. Maybe they will be nice and only leave you maimed, incapable of going to work and confined to a hospital bed.
In the United States, police average an 8 minute response to a call for a violent crime, so calling the police will frequently result in them arriving AFTER the crime is over.
You can either rely on the mercy of a criminal willing to kill you over the $23 in your wallet, rely on a police officer that will be here in 6 to 8 minutes, or you can rely on yourself and carry a gun.
Dude!!!! If you have any breakthroughs.... tell me! MY wife is the EXACT SAME WAY! Getting my concealed carry in like 1 month. Taking a class within the next 2 weeks or so and then just applying.
My wife fights me on EVERY ISSUE like this... so hard not to walk away when she starts acting like this.
Let me know.