Armueller2001
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So my girlfriend was raised in Chicago by two parents who work for the police department. She was always taught to "fear" guns, and never touch her mom's or anyone else's for that matter. I've been talking to her about going to the shooting range for some time now, and she's kind of on the fence about it. She gets kind of scared when my gun is out on the nightstand next to my bed, pointed at the wall, but she requests that I bring my gun with me when we go into bad areas in Peoria at night... :banghead: even though my house here in Carbondale has been broken into twice (when I wasn't home) but I've never had a brush with crime in Peoria.
Anyway, I'm talking to her tonight on the phone about going to the range this weekend, and she's like "I don't know... we'll talk about it later, I don't want to talk about it right now." and she mentioned something about being scared. I told her that it was a lack of firearms training, and she'd feel MUCH better if she knew how to clear, and safely handle one. She told me if she ever needed a handgun in self defense, she'd grab mine and have a "crash course" in operation, and just figure it out there when she needed it. LOL. Like me getting knocked out or stabbed, and an intruder coming towards her from 10 feet away, is a great opportunity to figure out how to operate, aim, and fire a handgun.
I think the first thing I'm going to do when I'm teaching her safety at my house before we go is to set the gun down and ask her, "If you needed this gun, and wanted to turn the safety off to fire it, what would you press?" I'm betting she's going to point to the magazine release, because there IS no manual safety on my M&P. I'll show her what that particular button does, and how SCREWED she would be if she would have pressed it in an encounter. Then I'll go on to show how to clear a weapon, verify it is unloaded, have her hold it (I imagine she'll instinctively put her finger on the trigger), and go over the 4 rules, etc.
Side note - does anyone find it funny how a person holds a pistol for the first time? Like it's a lobster and its going to jump up and bite them or something hahaha.
Anyway, I'm talking to her tonight on the phone about going to the range this weekend, and she's like "I don't know... we'll talk about it later, I don't want to talk about it right now." and she mentioned something about being scared. I told her that it was a lack of firearms training, and she'd feel MUCH better if she knew how to clear, and safely handle one. She told me if she ever needed a handgun in self defense, she'd grab mine and have a "crash course" in operation, and just figure it out there when she needed it. LOL. Like me getting knocked out or stabbed, and an intruder coming towards her from 10 feet away, is a great opportunity to figure out how to operate, aim, and fire a handgun.
I think the first thing I'm going to do when I'm teaching her safety at my house before we go is to set the gun down and ask her, "If you needed this gun, and wanted to turn the safety off to fire it, what would you press?" I'm betting she's going to point to the magazine release, because there IS no manual safety on my M&P. I'll show her what that particular button does, and how SCREWED she would be if she would have pressed it in an encounter. Then I'll go on to show how to clear a weapon, verify it is unloaded, have her hold it (I imagine she'll instinctively put her finger on the trigger), and go over the 4 rules, etc.
Side note - does anyone find it funny how a person holds a pistol for the first time? Like it's a lobster and its going to jump up and bite them or something hahaha.