Have you lost any "friends" because of your interest in firearms?

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After I retiered from the PD and became a nurse I lost a promotion because of 2A and RKBA conversations I did not initiate. Kept my mouth shut and did some digging and got the reviewing nurse manager fired.

So no, never lost a friend but did lose an enemy.
 
I live in rural Georgia. Everybody I know hunts, shoots, and goes armed. I have nothing to do with liberals, anyway. I simply can no longer relate to them. I have never had lib friends; the few lib acquaintances I had I ditched after they voted for Obama. Men who are afraid of guns are the ones who stand on a chair and shriek if a mouse runs through the room.
 
Nope. Probably like many on here I never lost a friend over my interest in guns and actually made quite a lot of new (and long lasting), relationships because of it.
 
Nope never have. But then, being my friend and being anti gun are mutually exclusive.
 
No.
My friends are pretty eclectic. Then again, I don't demand that they think exactly like I think either.
Acquaintances may be another matter, but friends are friends.
 
Not really. I don't go out of my way to make friends with people that hate or don't like guns.
 
My father taught me two important lessons:
  1. Choose your friends carefully.
  2. Don't worry about the opinions of imbeciles who couldn't give a damn whether you live or die.
Those lessons have served me well in fifty seven years.

Anybody stupid enough to be a "movement" anti-gunner isn't likely ever to have BEEN a friend in the first place. You can't cease to be what you never were.
 
Yep. I've both made and lost friends due to my gun & gun rights interests. I haven't lost any really long-term friends, over it, thankfully. I count some fairly diehard liberals among my friends, but they don't rant and rave about gun control. We're all pretty civil in our discussions about it, and they come me for fact-checking on the issue.
 
I've made several friends and become distanced from others, mainly my strong left-of-center friends from school days.

For the record, I used to be very liberal until around 1989 or so when I made a rather dramatic shift toward the conservative end of the spectrum. Although I was notably anti-gun until six years ago when decades of what essentially amounted to government tyranny, caused me to make a very sudden 180° turn.
 
I know there are people in my life who are uncomfortable with and even afraid of firearms, and who are most definitely uncomfortable with my interest in guns. I even feel like some people I once considered friends now avoid me because of my interest in firearms.

Has anyone else experienced this? Just curious.
For the most part my "friends" are people I have associated with and known for over 50 years. For the most part none of these people has any issues with my love of the gun and many like me enjoy shooting.

Prior to my retirement I did have several co-workers that I worked side by side with for over 25 years. Some opposed "The Gun" and were well within their rights to do so. I live life to enjoy it, not to debate guns, religion or politics with friends or co-workers. Those who do are rather short sighted and need to grow up.

Ron
 
I'll echo the statements here of accepting my friends differences and them accepting mine.
 
I have lost no one I consider a true "friend." I have lost acquaintances, though. One guy I used to work with years ago reconnected with me on Facebook. It seemed he took every opportunity to play devil's advocate, as he put it, every time a gun-related issue came up. When I asked him about it once, he insisted he harbored no ill will towards gun ownership. After that, he became even more belligerent about it, so I eventually cut him loose. No loss there. There have been others as well who complained about my postings of pro-2A material, and who eventually disappeared from my "friends" list, either by their own accord or my occasional culling.

All of my true friends know my position regarding firearms. Some agree, others do not. However, we're all adults and mature enough to recognize that's not what defines our friendships. Some of them own firearms, some have absolutely no desire to own any. Even the non-gun friends, though, are OK with me carrying in their presence. Honestly, I think some of them are more OK with it than they are willing to admit.
 
I can't say I ever lost any friends over interest in firearms. In fact, people would've thought it queer if I didn't have interest in firearms.

But I grew up in a conservative rural farming community, versus the contemporary raised-by-single-mother x-box-educated kid.

A kid hauling down a canal bank on a clapped out XR80 with a shotgun gripped across the handlebars wasn't noteworthy where I came from.
 
No. I have many old friends who do not own firearms and some who are anti gun. We are tolerant of differing opinions.

I don't make a big deal of my position on controversial issues including firearms, abortion, same sex marriage, etc. etc. Not my job to convert people to my way of thinking.
 
I've made several friends and become distanced from others, mainly my strong left-of-center friends from school days.

For the record, I used to be very liberal until around 1989 or so when I made a rather dramatic shift toward the conservative end of the spectrum. Although I was notably anti-gun until six years ago when decades of what essentially amounted to government tyranny, caused me to make a very sudden 180° turn.


If you don't mind telling I would love to hear what made you turn your political views abruptly. I can guess about gun control, with what is occurring in our country currently.
 
No, I have never lost a friend over my interest in firearms. I don't associate with cultural Marxists anyway.
 
They weren't good friends, but yes. I will speak out when people spread anti-gun lies.

I've lost friends over other political views too. Just a bunch of clowns that believe everything should be free for them paid for by us.
 
I lost a friend because his wife didn't like me, and my firearms were one of her main reasons for giving her husband the order to dump me.
Plus the fact that she was extremely devoutly religious and I have a more liberal attitude
towards church going and drinking alcohol.
 
Never lost a friend. Friends are folks with similar interests.....like guns and hunting. Have turned off a few acquaintances tho.......
 
Nope but I gained a whole lot of additional friends when I started going to my local gun club. I gained a couple more when I started reloading and gained a couple more when I started casting.

I am extremely anti-social by nature so if I wasn't a gun guy, I probably wouldn't have any friends at all.
 
I know there are people in my life who are uncomfortable with and even afraid of firearms, and who are most definitely uncomfortable with my interest in guns. I even feel like some people I once considered friends now avoid me because of my interest in firearms.

Has anyone else experienced this? Just curious.

I'm in the process of losing a friend - my oldest and at one time closest friend - over firearms right now. It's been ongoing for a couple of months.

His wife joined some non-denominational new age "hippy" church and the church is devoutly anti-gun, putting on gun buybacks, etc.

She (the wife) talked my friend of 30 years in to going, and now about once a week I get confrontational posts on Facebook with anti-gun links along the lines of "so what do you think about this?", with the links pointing to huffington or NYT or Chicago tribune anti-gun opinion pieces.

Invariably, since their friends can see the post on my wall, I get a herd of hippy anti-gunners all posting link after link of emotional bullcrap about why guns are the most evil objects on the planet and most assuredly must possess anyone who looks at one to go forth and commit mass homicide.

I'm getting pretty tired of "justifying" my right to self-defense, my right to carry a gun, and my right to own "weapons of mass destruction" to the couple.

Although I do love posting pictures of my belt-feds in response to their anti-gun crap. :)

The couple, and by extension other members of their church, have REALLY singled me out because I'm an NRA multi-discipline instructor, Chief range safety officer, Illinois State Police approved concealed carry instructor, public rights activist, and in general the pro-gun "bad guy" local public figure that they can specifically target.

Whatever, I don't mind the constant debates - but it is a waste of time as I'm not going to change their holier-than-thou attitude or holy-crusade-against-gun stance.

Religious zealots who have integrated anti-gun views in to their doctrine are a dangerous group - you can't ever convince them otherwise because their views now link the gospel with absolute pacifism.

Don't get me wrong - I'm not your typical chest-thumping redneck type who espouses violence as way to end evil. On the contrary - I'm a pacifist Buddhist which many of you would undoubtedly consider a "liberal hippy" in my own right! But I still fundamentally understand that life carries value, that there is evil in this world, and that - if me or my family is attacked - I will defend those lives up to and including my dying breath, because life is precious, and it is my duty to defend those I love even if it costs me my own life in the process.

As an example of their religious dogma when they attacked my religion specifically; "As a Buddhist, shouldn't you shoot to wound or not shoot at all, because all life is sacred?"

My answer; "I don't shoot to kill. I don't shoot to wound. I shoot center mass where the arterial cluster is to create blood loss and promote rapid unconsciousness, in order to stop the threat as fast as possible. If someone dies following that, it is because they made the conscious decision to attack me and with their decision comes grave risk - so no, if they die, that's on them, not me."

And so it goes.. round and round.

There are some "New Age" religions popping up here and there, churches "worshipping God", which don't even quote from the Bible or any other established text, who nod towards a supreme being. But those new churches don't have the codified rules of Catholicism, or Judaism, or Buddhism, or any of the other established religions.

These new churches are nothing more than Political Cults, and the founders have a very real agenda.

Keep an eye out for it, because taking your guns away is ONE of those agendas, and they are pursuing it with full religious fervor and zealousness.
 
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