SwearNoAllegiance
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I recently filled out an application for a gig that payed $75 an hour. A fine wage.
One of the questions on the application was: "What are your primary hobbies and interests?" I put the following:
"My primary hobby involves the collection and study of antique and modern firearms as well as marksmanship. Other interests include the personal study of theology, history, free market economics, and politics."
My friend referred me for the job. I have not heard back from them in a couple weeks and so my friend talked with the lady in charge. She said she was very interested in me and would have hired me had I not put that. "She doesn't like people who have strong opinions of the Government and collect firearms," said my friend. My friend told her that, "You've got him all wrong; he's a gentle man, hard working, and intelligent. He is what you are looking for in this job." But to no avail.
So there you have it. I am qualified for the job, I have solid references, but because my hobby is not suitable to this one person, I will not get the job. Worse yet is the fact that I cannot contact them about this because my friend will get in trouble.
I was extremely angry about this and then I became filled with sadness. Never would I have dreamed I would have derailed a good job because of that. I was judged not on objective fairness, but on the whims of some woman who found fault with what is an honorable hobby. I could have lied or put something else, but this violates my own ethical standard. This is my primary hobby; it is what I do.
I think I stressed out my lady friend too. I was angry when she told me and I think she's worried that I am going to get her in trouble.
This is BULL****.
One of the questions on the application was: "What are your primary hobbies and interests?" I put the following:
"My primary hobby involves the collection and study of antique and modern firearms as well as marksmanship. Other interests include the personal study of theology, history, free market economics, and politics."
My friend referred me for the job. I have not heard back from them in a couple weeks and so my friend talked with the lady in charge. She said she was very interested in me and would have hired me had I not put that. "She doesn't like people who have strong opinions of the Government and collect firearms," said my friend. My friend told her that, "You've got him all wrong; he's a gentle man, hard working, and intelligent. He is what you are looking for in this job." But to no avail.
So there you have it. I am qualified for the job, I have solid references, but because my hobby is not suitable to this one person, I will not get the job. Worse yet is the fact that I cannot contact them about this because my friend will get in trouble.
I was extremely angry about this and then I became filled with sadness. Never would I have dreamed I would have derailed a good job because of that. I was judged not on objective fairness, but on the whims of some woman who found fault with what is an honorable hobby. I could have lied or put something else, but this violates my own ethical standard. This is my primary hobby; it is what I do.
I think I stressed out my lady friend too. I was angry when she told me and I think she's worried that I am going to get her in trouble.
This is BULL****.