Heated arguement about concealed carry

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How did this thread turn into a discussion about the OP being competent enough to carry handgun? he is probably much more mature than most of you saying he's a dumb teenager and is going to get arrested or is going to go around telling people about his ccw


I some how doubt I'm less mature than an 18y/o but you go ahead and think that. As far as why I carry and gun and avoid telling people about it or walking into trouble. I do that because it is both prudent and smart. I managed to defend myself several times over the years, a gun is very useful when you have the resolve to use it. My gun went to college so much it should have gotten a degree as well.

I support self defense and carry a gun because I've been on the end of a 50 minute emergency response from a deadweight police department full of deadweight cops.(they managed to cover the ONE mile from their station to my house in the speed or a turtle) After you have been toe to toe with a drug crazed 19y/o loser who just beat someone half to death in the street and is now focused on you because you dialed 911 and nobody showed up, you learn to love your CCW. I'd just as soon wait for a monkey with a gun to fall from the sky as hope for police assistance.
 
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I read a few of the posts before I considered chiming in.

One of my favorite sayings when I speak of concealed carry here in Illinois (which is not legal for a private citizen regardless of age contrary to what someone stated in a previous post) is "The police are only minutes away when seconds count."

The op, of whom I do not know, whether mature or not should seek training PRIOR to carrying concealed or otherwise. This does not seem to be the case as they have just turned 18 and can only now legally own a handgun where they live.

I also do not believe that an 18 year old is tempered enough to walk away and not take part in escalating things to the point of no return. I am sure that most 18 year olds would also tell their buddies that they carry a gun and before long it would no longer be a secret (ie: concealed).

As for 18 year olds serving our great country: They receive extensive training to do so and mature greatly during the process unlike most civilian 18 year olds.
 
As to how I got my pistol it was gifted to me by my father who got me into shooting. In South Dakota one is not allowed to purchase a handgun until 21 but may own/posses one along with a CCW.

Ah. Well, you have probably thought of this, but any lingering family tension between dad and stepdad may also account for some of this.

Let it go. Be a good ambassador for safe gun handling (obviously you've been well trained in this), and remember that "concealed means concealed". But don't argue it at your mom's dinner table. You won't get anywhere, you won't change his mind, and you'll mess up everybody's enjoyment of your mom's cooking. :D

Jan
 
Yeah, what Springmom said.

I would only add that a lot of people at this point in your life think you should listen to them because they've been sucking air longer than you.
It's not true.
Think for yourself and follow your own moral compass as you already have been. There will always be a guy like that Stepdad somewhere.
 
I find the comments equating age and maturity to be out of line and unfounded. You cannot possibly know enough about this young man to make any sort of determination of his ability to safely handle firearms based on his age alone. I too am from SD, and I too had a permit@18. The law saw me fit to carry at that point, so I did, and continue to, 15 years later, with no issues whatsoever. i also had unsupervised access to firearms not only at 18, but 12-13! The family gun cabinet was inches from my bed, and due to the responsibility I showed with firearms, my access to them was never denied or controlled. i was free to take and shoot any gun once I was trained with it in regards to proper operation and safety. If he does something immature or stupid with his gun, he should face approparate consequences. Until then, its really no one's damn business if he's 18 or 81. If he can carry safely and responsibily....and at this point we have nothing indicating that isn't possible or even probable..... he should be allowed to carry under the laws of our state. Its not up to a bunch of internet commandos to determine whether they believe he should have that right or not. he already has it, and has chosen to exercise it. he hsould be commended for the choice, not mocked because of his age.
 
I refuse to argue with people on this issue. You are NOT going to change their minds. And most of the people I encounter that want to argue the point have never owned or even shot a gun. They are clueless. Why waste breath on them? Unless you are discussing the point with someone that has a working and personal knowledge of firearms and they simply have a different point of view.... it's futile.
 
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In the strictest meaning of the word "danger" your father is correct. However, he is also incorrect. All need to understand that there is no such thing as perfect safety. It is an illusion. Seatbelts are dangerous because they can trap you in a car that is on fire or sinking in water. However, overall wearing a seatbelt is much safer than not wearing one.

Every thing that is good has some danger associated with it. We do not do away with seatbelts or other good things just because there is a small risk of danger. In life we have to choose not between things that are totally safe and things that are totally dangerous but between what is more safe or more dangerous. So for you and everybody else what is safer; for you to CCW or not.

The exact same arguments that your father uses to argue against you CCWing can also be used against allowing a policeman to carry. Police are not perfect and are just as capable of hurting innocent bystanders should they be forced to fire their weapons as anyone. However, with proper training, it is much safer for all the rest of us if the police have firearms.

As long as you have the necessary skills and judgment needed for using your CCW weapon than it is safer for you and everyone else for you to CCW. If you don't have the skills and necessary judgment then no.

Do you have the necessary skills and judgment? If not please get the proper training ASAP.
 
I start talking about my concealed pistol.

There's a time and a place for this. The time is never. I'll let you figure out the place.

As to the age issue, I need to extend a big old pat on the back to many of the members here who realize how immature folks under-21 are. You see, I grew up in a state that was shall issue, and I got a permit at the age of 19. This was after returning from serving in Iraq, where I was unsupervised with an M-16 and a grenade launcher for most of the tour. Anywho, the reason I owe this group of members thanks is that I wasn't even legal to go into the VFW where I was a member and have a beer. Without your prejudicial laws, I may have been exposed to alcohol below the arbitrary age of 21; this would have been terrible as nothing could have possibly prepared me for that.

I can't wait until I reach the age of 40 so I can recognize my own maturity to the point of dictating an arbitrary age for others. It'll be great fun, eh chums?
 
There's a time and a place for this. The time is never. I'll let you figure out the place.

Yes. Good for you.

As to the age issue, I need to extend a big old pat on the back to many of the members here who realize how immature folks under-21 are. You see, I grew up in a state that was shall issue, and I got a permit at the age of 19. This was after returning from serving in Iraq, where I was unsupervised with an M-16 and a grenade launcher for most of the tour.

Iraq is a war zone. Did you just at 18 hop a flight to Baghdad, get some guns, and cruise the countryside? No.

Should we assume instead that you were closely observed and extensively trained for several months before you were sent?

Whatever, when you got there the U.S. issued you a rifle and a grenade launcher.

Were you then free to take those weapons and go where you wished?
Whenever you wanted?
No one of higher rank anywhere around?
Because that’s what ‘unsupervised’ means.

If I'm wrong I apologize, but sorry, I don’t believe it.

And did you notice that before you left Iraq you had to return the weapons?
And did you note also that, in general, you are not allowed by the military to carry any weapons anywhere in the U.S. (yes, there are exceptions, they are few).


Without your prejudicial laws, I may have been exposed to alcohol below the arbitrary age of 21; this would have been terrible as nothing could have possibly prepared me for that.

So what exactly are you saying?
All arbitrary age laws are wrong?
Would you let all 19 year olds buy beer or carry a gun? All 16 year olds?
You seem to be saying yes, but I can't believe you really mean that. Wherever you draw the line, it’s arbitrary.

I can't wait until I reach the age of 40 so I can recognize my own maturity to the point of dictating an arbitrary age for others. It'll be great fun, eh chums?

Last try. Those ‘prejudicial arbitrary’ age rules exist for sound reasons. In general they are right and their wisdom is proven by experience. If you’ll notice, they are only bypassed where circumstances allow for carful, extended training and screening. Giving every 18 y/o who asks for one a gun permit doesn’t qualify. For those states which allow it, well we just disagree. I'd make it 21 minimum and require real training and background checks.
 
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I grew up with guns in KY, drafted at 18 so I can only give my observation. I have known young folks that I would trust to carry and older ones that should never touch a firearm. The first thing you need to learn is awareness and don't place yourself in a position of needing a firearm. A handgun isn't a quick fix to an attack, the real problem is after you use it. I have trained for many years and knowing when to draw your weapon is very important. I do recommend simple, basic training with or without improvised weapons as sometimes you will be where you can't carry or can't retrieve your handgun. I don't need it but I carry a cane and it is legal everywhere and at my age, never questioned. It is as lethal as I want it to be at close range. I carry an assisted opener behind my belt buckle so I can draw it with either hand. It's easy to pull a trigger and maybe it feels good at the time, but think long and hard about the consequences.
 
Step dad is obviously an "anti" and their arguments are almost always silly. They always speak from emotion and that emotion is usually hatred of guns but not always necessarily of the person. The bottom line is being an "anti" he speaks with "authority" about a subject he knows nothing about. Most "antis" couldn't tell the difference between an auto and a revolver but they think they know it all.

I would decline to speak to him at all about it since it is none of his business anyway.
 
I wish to add my voice to those who say, just let it go. He is anti, and obviously set against firearms, so let it be. Don't ruiin the times you have with your mother with arguments - there will be a time when you look back and wish your parents were still there to talk to.
To those who posted about AZ laws, yes, under 21 may not carry concealed, 18-21 may carry openly without issue, and 16-18 may carry with some restrictions. Those restrictions were passed after I reached the age of majority. I have legally carried a sidearm since the age of 16 in this state, no issues.
Good luck to you in your endeavors, sir.
 
Should we assume instead that you were closely observed and extensively trained for several months before you were sent?

You can assume whatever you like. I'm going to go ahead and assume that you haven't spent any time in uniform. This is not meant as a dig; you just don't seem to have a grasp of how the military currently works. When I think of supervising a juvenile with a gun, I picture being on a range ensuring that safety rules are followed at all times and shooting with the goal of improving marksmanship and having a good time. What I just got back from doing in Afghanistan involved "supervising" from up to 100 miles away for small teams. By title I was their supervisor, but I couldn't check their chambers and tell them where to point the guns even if I wanted to.

Just because folks of a higher rank are around doesn't automatically make them supervisors to others, nor will they act as such. This can be a good thing. A full bird colonel wearing a shoulder holster down to his knee isn't someone I want giving tactical directions to my guys.

Whatever, when you got there the U.S. issued you a rifle and a grenade launcher.

Were you then free to take those weapons and go where you wished?

You'd be surprised. Much like now, I can't carry in prohibited places stateside. I couldn't take a care load of buddies with long guns and cruise down to Mexico. However, that doesn't mean that I'm supervised by my local constabulary and by the Border Guards. Basically, I'm saying that having restrictions placed on one's movement and use of property by an authority figure is not tantamount to supervising.

No, we did not just hop in a vehicle and roll randomly through the countryside. However, this had nothing to do with my "supervisors," as I wouldn't find such a move advisable under any circumstances in Iraq at that time. Same with Afghanistan. I never told my guys "Don't go off on your lonesome for a joyride." There's still a handful of folks left with a shred of common sense I guess.

If I'm wrong I apologize, but sorry, I don’t believe it.

It's the internet. Making believers in anything by this medium isn't a goal of mine.

And did you notice that before you left Iraq you had to return the weapons?
And did you note also that, in general, you are not allowed by the military to carry any weapons anywhere in the U.S. (yes, there are exceptions, they are few).

Actually, I didn't notice that. Weapons were issued a couple months prior to deployment and turned in when we got back. Same thing this time around.


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Without your prejudicial laws, I may have been exposed to alcohol below the arbitrary age of 21; this would have been terrible as nothing could have possibly prepared me for that.
So what exactly are you saying?
All arbitrary age laws are wrong?
Would you let all 19 year olds buy beer or carry a gun? All 16 year olds?
You seem to be saying yes, but I can't believe you really mean that. Wherever you draw the line, it’s arbitrary.

I'm saying, as many others have, that I met plenty of folks both military and civilian of a broad age category who ought not be allowed to handle weapons, and plenty of younger folks both military and civilian whom I would trust 100% with a weapon. Briefly thinking about it now, I would say that yes, I believe that all arbitrary age laws are wrong. Can you safely pass a written and practical driving test? Get a license. Don't want your child abusing alcohol as a youngster? Try actually being a parent and see if that works. Voting I would take a different angle to: Must own property, have given of civil or military service, or be employed to the point of self-sufficiency (no welfare recipients). I don't believe that those who are in the best position to drive the system into the ground to give themselves a leg up deserve to be piloting the ship. Contractual obligations are the one thing I can't immediately develop an alternative to; perhaps it doesn't need one as we've gone into a different realm. Certainly a 6 year old or a person adjudicated mentally defective should not be entering into contracts.

Bottom line, I fundamentally disagree with arbitrary age laws.

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I can't wait until I reach the age of 40 so I can recognize my own maturity to the point of dictating an arbitrary age for others. It'll be great fun, eh chums?
Last try. Those ‘prejudicial arbitrary’ age rules exist for sound reasons. In general they are right and their wisdom is proven by experience. If you’ll notice, they are only bypassed where circumstances allow for carful, extended training and screening. Giving every 18 y/o who asks for one a gun permit doesn’t qualify. For those states which allow it, well we just disagree. I'd make it 21 minimum and require real training and background checks.

I never received any of the careful, extended training and screening that you describe when I got my permit at 19. I got it the same way everyone else did in a shall issue state, meet the minimum requirements, pay the fee, and wait by the mailbox.

We've reached a point in the debate where we can cross from the philosophical to the evidential. Since you're making the claim that the laws exist for good reasons, please provide some examples. If you are making your case as a man of logic, and believe that folks 18-21 should not carry, I'm looking for a list of incidents from you that specifically shows 18-21 year olds with carry permits abusing the government-regulated privilege.

Slamdunk case on your part if you can provide this.

Also, for your situational awareness, if you look at many European countries where alcohol age limits are very low, unenforced, or non-existent, you'll find that they have lower rates of youth alcohol abuse than we do in the States. I suspect there are other factors at play here (culture being a big one both in practice and in the implementation of the laws, for example). However, arbitrary age limits will not protect people from themselves any more successfully than drug laws have.
 
I amazed that so many members have been able to conclude that the OP is a mature, trustworthy individual and that his step-dad is an idiot based on a couple posts. Just for starters, we're only getting one side of the story. Mom and step-dad know the OP far better than any of us here. If their judgement is that he isn't mature enough to carry a gun, I'd defer to their superior knowledge of the OP as a person.
Frankly, I'd say this is more about friction between the OP and step-dad than it is about anything else. Since I don't know either of them, I'll hold off on saying who is mature and who is an idiot.
 
I am of the opinion that it is best to not tell anyone that you carry a concealed weapon. The only people who should find out are the types in the 2 scenarios you outlined.

The simplified answer to scenario one is that the attacker should not have time to get angry or change tactics before you “remove the threat”. While no particular outcome is guaranteed, training is the logical answer to both scenarios as far as greatly increasing the odds in your favor. That said, what are you doing to train yourself for a potentially life threatening situation? Range practice at 50 or even 25 ft. will not get you where you need to be IMHO. Get some advanced combat focused shooting training. While one on one training would be preferable, the NRA has a good multi-DVD set to get you started; The Personal Firearm Defense Series.
 
California, Nevada, Arizona, Oregon, Idaho, Colorado, Kansas, Nebraska, South Dakota, Iowa, Wisconsin, Illinois, Mississippi, Alabama, North Carolina, Virginia, West Virginia, Kentucky, Indiana, Ohio, Pennsylvania, Delaware, Maryland, Montana, Wyoming, Louisiana, Missouri, New Hampshire, Maine, Vermont, AND Alaska.

Wisconsin and Illinois do not allow a civilian to carry a firearm in all places normally allowed. Law Says: (4) Carries or possesses in any vehicle or concealed on or about his person except when on his land or in his abode or fixed place of business any pistol, revolver, stun gun, taser or other firearm.” 720 ILCS 5/24-1(a)(4)(West 1994).

So only on your land or "fixed place of bussiness"
 
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I find the comments equating age and maturity to be out of line and unfounded. You cannot possibly know enough about this young man to make any sort of determination of his ability to safely handle firearms based on his age alone.

http://www.kxly.com/news/25342851/detail.html

http://www.kxly.com/news/25339896/detail.html

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFMs2w9Qexg


While I'm sure most 18y/o kids are as mature and probably far smarter, better paid and have better judgement than everyone else, there seem to be so few of them running the country that I am forced to occasionally wonder when they are going to step up and save us from ourselves. I too was one of the world's smartest 18y/o kids.


Oh yeah, maybe they were all overdosing on roofies when duty called? or maybe they crashed on the way to the White House? I'm betting the guy in link #3 will not be a stellar adult in two years and I can't imagine him with a gun and see anything positive.
 
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Where do you get that last comment?

Like many people over 40, I have heard plenty from opinionated teenagers who claim to know more than the rest of us. Someone having a negative opinion of your CCW when you announce it at the dinner table might suprise an 18y/o for instance. A more seasoned adult would have simply kept his CCW to him or herself and avoided the whole thing.

Does that mean all 18 year olds are in some way bad? Not at all and nobody said that. Does this mean 18 year olds should not be allowed CCW's? Nope, that is the general opinion of both sides of the discussion. When you happen to be 18, carrying a gun and trying to have an adult conversation with someone who appears to be both anti-gun and set in their ways you better get used to disappointment. You won't be changing their opinion.

I linked some examples of behavior and trouble that are more likely to occur when you are young. I live in a town with four universities, two community colleges and a military base, young people seem to manage plenty of mischief that the rest of us, "old geezers" gave up on years ago. Not many 50 year olds out there ODing on Viagra or street racing these days, I have not seen a 45 y/o beating his gag gift with a bat, pretty much ever.
 
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Your entire line of discussion is unproductive. Everybody knows that there are young people who do irresponsible things. Everybody knows that there are elderly people who are irresponsible drivers. Everybody knows that there are Muslims who are terrorists, and everybody knows that there are women who get jobs for looks instead of ability.
You don't need to prove these facts to anyone. Referencing articles to try and "prove that adolescents are irresponsible" is not necessary. However, the notion that a group itself possesses one of these negative traits is the definition bigotry. Attempting to promote bigotry is at the very least not High Road, and at the very worst a clear act of evil.

I apologize if its not what you had intended to do, but the tone of your post to the casual observer appears to be targeting a group, not individuals. I accept this no more than when the Brady Bunch references a psycho and tries to associate their actions with gun owners as a group.
 
"Targeting" an age group is not bigotry. More like stereotyping. That said, certain age groups come with certain opinions many have about them. Some of them are true, and some are not. Not all young people are irresponsible, and not all older folks are mature.

I have met morons with guns who are 18 to 80. I have also met very responsible gun owners from 18 to 80.

That said, age usually brings more wisdom and maturity with it, and young people usually need time to get more experience in things.

What was the discussion?
 
Maybe my dictionary is old and opinionated as well. But the word Bigotry used to mean "one who holds blindly or intolerantly to a particular creed or opinion" according to my old Webster's dictionary.

I have expressed my personal opinion. It is based on experience and facts available from places as mundane as the National Safety Council. I don't hold it blindly nor was it created in a vacuum. There are reasons people tend to question eighteen year olds a bit more than thirty year olds, most of them are related to experience and knowledge. Experience is aquired over time.

I'm going to have to disagree with your name calling, that does not seem to "High Road" to me. Your dictionary might need a bit of work as well.
 
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