Tropical Buzz said:
, what I originally questioned was the need or the desire to carry openly in a place where it is unusual, generally considered out of place and likely to cause discomfort to others.
To be fair; Wayne and I live in a region where although it's not exactly common; open carry isn't particularly unusual either. There are undoubtedly
some people who feel uncomfortable in the presence of an openly carried sidearm here.
The reason I don't worry about causing people discomfort, is because I'm
not causing their discomfort -
they are. Me and my gun aren't
doing anything to cause discomfort. All the discomfort they feel is due to their internal mental processes. There is an important distinction here. If I (to use your example) break wind in an elevator, play music too loud in public, step on someone's toes, or cut someone off in traffic; I have done something that directly and tangibly infringes on their rights. Alternatively if someone takes offense at my clothing, skin color, religion, or sidearm; they have
chosen to be upset by something that they could just as easily ignore.
There is no limit to what some people might decide is offensive, but I don't have any obligation to placate them. As long as what I do isn't having an objective, tangible, negative effect on their rights;
it's not my problem. This may sound callous or self-centered, but I try to extend the same courtesy to others. I don't make a fuss and try to manipulate the behavior of others when I can just as easily ignore them. There are people who would gladly force my wife to wear a burkha or insist that I do no work on Sundays - I feel no less obligated to kowtow to those people than I do to the people who would throw a hissy fit over my pistol.
The deterrent factor holds water but with all the other things we can do do reduce our viability as targets, is it worth the downsides?
In my experience, the downsides are largely imaginary.