I have had quite a number of classes and read countless expert opinions which all recommend giving items of monetary value to a criminal if confronted, but what completely escapes me is the weapon involved. Let's face it, if a criminal demands your money or wallet, there has bound to be a deadly weapon involved or else you would probably keep walking without giving their demand much thought. If someone is demanding items from me and I am actually considering relinquishing them, there will probably be a gun or knife pointed at me within a distance at which it could do major bodily harm or cause death, and the person holding the weapon will have the capacity to use it. I would assume that is generally the case in muggings or similar thefts be it wallet, money, jewelry, or vehicles, etc.
My problem with this scenario is that even if I give up my valuables I still have a deadly weapon pointed at me with no considerable guarantee that it will not be used to kill or maim. I find that it makes much more sense to assume that your life is in danger and that someone sinister enough to demand valuables at gun or knife point has the intent to use those weapons regardless of your compliance. I have often thought that I might pull out my wallet and throw it at the same time draw my weapon so that I at least of some sort of retaliatory options should the wallet or valuable item not deter an attack, however if I have a gun pointed at my chest I may not have the time to do both. I also realize that if I have a gun pointed at my chest it means that the criminal had the chance to dispatch me but so far has chosen not to go down that road, at least not before he has what he wants and can make a quick retreat after the gun shot or stabbing. In this day and age of gang related crimes where brutal initiations and ego fueled violence run rampant, simple crimes such as theft seem to turn out not so simple for the victim.
Given the above information, how and why am I supposed to trust this deranged criminal to stop at a simple theft? I understand that ego must be put aside and the loss of my valuables are cheaper than court costs, but where does one draw the line between sense and gullible stupidity in this situation?
My problem with this scenario is that even if I give up my valuables I still have a deadly weapon pointed at me with no considerable guarantee that it will not be used to kill or maim. I find that it makes much more sense to assume that your life is in danger and that someone sinister enough to demand valuables at gun or knife point has the intent to use those weapons regardless of your compliance. I have often thought that I might pull out my wallet and throw it at the same time draw my weapon so that I at least of some sort of retaliatory options should the wallet or valuable item not deter an attack, however if I have a gun pointed at my chest I may not have the time to do both. I also realize that if I have a gun pointed at my chest it means that the criminal had the chance to dispatch me but so far has chosen not to go down that road, at least not before he has what he wants and can make a quick retreat after the gun shot or stabbing. In this day and age of gang related crimes where brutal initiations and ego fueled violence run rampant, simple crimes such as theft seem to turn out not so simple for the victim.
Given the above information, how and why am I supposed to trust this deranged criminal to stop at a simple theft? I understand that ego must be put aside and the loss of my valuables are cheaper than court costs, but where does one draw the line between sense and gullible stupidity in this situation?