and then the shocker...."its either me or the guns"
Which I respond by saying one of the following:
"Don't let the doorknob hit you where the Good Lord split you!"
"SEE YA!"
"POOF! BE GONE, B**CH!"
Or for more civil means: "It was a pleasure to have known you. Good luck in your future endeavors. It's over. I hope we can at least be friends."
I don't accept ultimadums. They SCREAM "Control Freak"!
Background: I was engaged to a woman who absolutely REFUSED to allows gun in our home. She told me if I brought a gun in this house, she would pack her stuff and leave. Out of love and respect (which I came to find out she didn't deserve either) there were no guns in this house. Then it led to other things, to the point our disagreements would become fights, and those fights ended up in her being physically agressive (punching, slapping, and throwing things at me). At that point, I ended the relationship.
My current live-in girlfriend was with me for the first gun purchase, and I'm now on two guns working my way up to a larger collection (at least a rifle, shotgun, and a 1911). She's not a "gun nut" by any stretch, but accepts that both owning and carrying a gun is my lifestyle and my personal choice. She enjoys going to the range with me, and occasionally gets the nerve to pop off a couple rounds from the .38 snub-nose that's kept in the house for her protection when I'm not here (she's actually a pretty good shot with it!).
Last night, she joked with me about the idea of me taking her to obtain her PA License to Carry. She said she's not looking to daily carry like I do. I told her I'd pay the fees and possibly even buy a gun for her (something small like a S&W snubbie or Bersa .380) or give her the .38 I have now. If it's anything like her folder knife, she'll end up carrying it everywhere.
But seriously dude, get out of this now before the bigger problems arise. Like everyone else said, THE BIG RED WARNING FLAGS ARE UP!
-38SnubFan