I agree with you. It is odd to me that a person who enjoys occasionally drinking would give up drinking altogether just so that they will never be disarmed. If you really want to live, you've got to take some risks in life. You can hole up in the safe room of your house your whole life and reduce the risk of getting killed, but then you've stolen your own life.
The chances of actually needing to use your carry weapon are pretty low. Some police officers who have an inherently higher risk of needing to use their carry pistol might go their entire career without having to use it. I don't mean to minimize the need for carrying, because you never know when it might be needed and you'll want to have it when you do, but the same people who worry about going a second without their carry weapon won't think twice about driving a car on the road where the chance of getting injured or killed is quite high.
The line from the first post in this thread that said "the first rule of concealed carry is always carry because otherwise carrying is pointless" is one of the most nonsensical statements I've seen. The whole point of carrying is to reduce the risk of harm to yourself or loved ones. Even if you only carried every other day, that's still a 50% reduction in the risk of harm, which is better than nothing. Carry as much as you can, but don't let it rule your life so much that you don't actually live.