I spent Thanksgiving eve loading a bunch of light 12 gauge loads (7/8 oz, about 1150-1200 fps) for my wife, sister-in-laws, and nieces and nephews.
After Thanksgiving dinner, we went out some land that my dad owns and shot lots of clay pigeons. We went through about 250 shotgun shells and about 200 clays. We had a BB gun and a 22 for the younger kids. We also shot some a mosin M44 and a Yugo M48 at dusk to see some awesome fireballs, mostly from the mosin. It was awesome. I also had some trail-boss loads in 8x57 that were lots of fun for the older kids (10-14).
What I learned:
#1. I need to get a gas operated 20 gauge (1100 or something similar) with a shorter length of pull for the kids. Not quite a youth model, but close. Even with the mild loads, the recoil was a little rough.
#2. Watch my brothers the next time we go shooting. I was able to sneak in a couple of heavy 3" magnums on two of my brothers when they were shooting. I don't remember the brand, but the reaction was well worth it.
#3. I also learned that I need to shoot shotgun left handed. I'm left eye dominant, but grew up shooting right handed and have never been consistent with a shotgun. I hit 10 out of 12 left handed, but only 4 out of 10 right handed. It was a lot less weird feeling than it was in the past.
Matt