This gets so old so fast, but I may have over-reacted.

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My younger 22 year old brother, who is here on vacation from San Fran, threw a temper tantrum in my car (as a guest of my car after taking him to lunch as a favor because he has no car while on vacation here) when I had to stop at the LGS to put a deposit down for my AR.

It only took 2 minutes and he stayed in the car. When he asked what an AR is, I said it is a civilian semi-auto version of an M4 more or less. He said, "WHAT! You mean like the M4 from Counter-Strike!?!" I said, "Well, I don't think equating guns to a video game is the best way to understand them, but I suppose yes."

He said, "Great! So you own assault weapons now! :rolleyes:" and I said, "I suppose if you feel you need to term a normal semi-automatic rifle painted black, that isn't much different than rifles you recently could buy at Walmart.... yes."

At this point he starts getting incredibly angry (he turned red in the face and was shaking in a bizarre way) and throwing a tantrum saying, "This is so disturbing! I'm so angry! I feel like I should just get out of the car!"

Well, we were only 2 miles away from home. So I said, "Well, if that's how you feel, and you're going to throw a tantrum like a little child, feel free." and I pulled over. He got out of the car, and I drove home.

I know I was immature and over-reacted. I probably should have talked it out more with him instead of just letting him out of the car like that. It just gets so old dealing with the same stuff over and over that I just don't want to hear it anymore. :banghead:
 
The gun wasn't even in the car, so it had no chance of assaulting him...What was he complaining about?:D

He's got a good point though, any gun on counter strike shouldn't be made for civilians.:)
 
Dude,

I know what you mean.

I would have done the same thing you did.

But...when it all settles and you feel like he's a little more mature, don't pass up an opportunity to talk to him about it again.

We were all young once. My sometimes bad attitude and tantrums prohibited me from learning more than I could have. Luckily, it didn't last long for me. :)

Remember, you can pick your friends, but you're stuck with family... (now if that ain't helpful advice, I don't know what is...:D)
 
You shouldn't have made the comparison to the M4. You should have said it was a light semi-automatic sporting rifle developed in the 40s and 50s; and a piece of recent American history.

Besides that though, he really "dug his own grave", and you did just fine. If he gets so upset being around someone who only thinks different than him, then maybe during the walk home he rethought his actions.
 
(sing with me) "Feelings. Nothing more than Feelings."
You can choose your friends but you're kinda stuck with family, ya know?

Nothing wrong with a little exercise now and then to relieve the blood pressure.
 
So your brother is twenty-two, or is that just two, twice?

Doesn't much matter... If he's gonna act like that, I'd have set him out on the side of the road too. And no, he wouldn't have had a choice in the matter.


J.C.
 
When you guys met up at home, did you ask him if he had a nice walk?

You did the right thing. Especially for being brother; brothers tend to always fight...no big deal. But just try to continue to have neutral discussions on the concept. Probably it's hopeless on helping him understand, but at least you've defended yourself with finese.
 
I'd have driven ahead and met him at the door with his bags and told him to get his commie a** back to SanFran and don't speak to me again until you grow an effing brain.

But I'm an a-hole.
 
Nothing immature about letting a grown man get out of the car if he wants to get out.

It would be immoral, and arguably illegal, not to.
 
Meh, you did fine.

While it's a truism that you're stuck with your family, it doesn't give them the right to abuse you or your hospitality. I had a similar confrontation last year with a much older uncle in town for a weekend. I sent him to a hotel, family or not he's got no business to come into my home and tell me how to live.
 
Having been on both side of those (we've all been young a stupid once, right?) I concur that you handled that just fine TheEconomist. My friends and I call that sort of behavior "Pulling a Dean" after a guy who regularly threw such tantrums. Dean walked 10 miles home in the high summer sun with wearing just a pair of shorts and a thin wife-beater teeshirt after one of his tantrums, looked like a boiled lobster the next day. Two miles is nothing, I walk that distance and back when I get groceries.

The only overreaction was from your younger brother.
 
times that try the soul

Of course, it was your brother who over reacted.

If you are fortunate enough to take posession of your AR, while your brother is with you, I would ask him if he wanted to go with you to the range to shoot it for the first time.

The CA; liberal mind set and philosophy is to shock the target audience with a greatly exaggerated statement of their viewpoint, and then tone it down so as to give the impression that they are considerate, rational and moderate after all.

So, shock your brother with the invite to shoot that awesome firearm. If he accepts, he may be off the yellow brick road and out of the state of California and it's crazyness eventually, just to big brother's sharing with him.

But watch that he doesn't pull some kind of stunt and attempt to damage or break you AR. That would be just like the type; remember the "crazy" in the sequel to Jurassic Park that disabled the professional hunter's big game rifle?
To be realistic and fair, the writers should have had him torn apart by one of the raptors for justice.
 
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