Sorry about being a little late to post. I received a response from Bud's on Sunday, but was busy with stuff and didn't get around to posting it.
According to Bud's, they did contact my dealer, but it had nothing to do with me personally. They were interested in finding out if he wanted to become a preferred dealer. Though the person who responded to me was not the person who called.
*shrug*
I'll question my dealer some more. I doubt he wants to steer me away from online shopping, as transfers are probably 60-70% of all his business. And generally, he's a very nice, very friendly guy who's well known in the area. I don't believe he would make something like that up for financial gain. I
can believe (and this is what I'm currently leaning towards) that he might've taken a few innocuous comments and read more into them than he should've. It makes sense that they would bring me, a repeat customer, up in a discussion about making him a preferred dealer.
In general, I think I over-reacted. My apologies to Buds and the people on here for raising empty alarms. Do you think it would make it fair if I concluded this thread with a glowing endorsement of Buds?
Their prices have always been great, shipping fast, and their website is always up-to-date with whether an item is in stock or not -- and I hate, more than anything, when I'm told that an item listed as "in stock" is actually back-ordered with an expected delivery time of 4 months (which I've encountered a couple of times in my online shopping experiences)... I WILL buy from them again (and again and again).