Willie Sutton
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"That's not advertising that I'm carrying. It's a t shirt"
It's an indicator.
That might be good (maybe someone starts a nice conversation with you because of it).
It might be bad (adverse social interaction ranging from being treated badly by some anti to being singled out for special attention by a bad actor. Insofar as bad actors are concerned, it might be a guy who wants what you might have, or a cop who isn't so particular about how he develops his desire to hassle you.)
But in any case, it's because you advertised your interests on your chest.
Me? If I want a conversation I'll start it, and I prefer to do without being hassled by anyone. So I don't generally advertise *anything* on my shirt. Actual mileage may vary, and you should enjoy life the way you choose to enjoy it too.
Now:
Everything we do advertises something. The car you drive, the clothes you wear, the watch you wear, the shoes you wear. Your accent and vocabulary. Your demeanor and your dental health. Your bumper stickers. Your hands. Your haircut. All of these are socio-economic indicators. To think that nobody notices or that everyone is treated the same is silly. We can guide others interactions in many ways by controlling what they see about us. I can tell about 85% of what I need to know about someone in the first 15 seconds after shaking their hand and saying hello. I can take a pretty good guess as to where they are from, their level of education and economic success, and their role in society. You can influence this. You can accentuate things, or you can suppress things, or you can deliberately misguide things (for a while). So: Guide the discussion in their brains the way YOU want them guided.
As Trent said, use of misinformation is a tool too.... and there's a certain pleasure in simply not caring what others think, as long as it does not affect you adversely.
Willie
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It's an indicator.
That might be good (maybe someone starts a nice conversation with you because of it).
It might be bad (adverse social interaction ranging from being treated badly by some anti to being singled out for special attention by a bad actor. Insofar as bad actors are concerned, it might be a guy who wants what you might have, or a cop who isn't so particular about how he develops his desire to hassle you.)
But in any case, it's because you advertised your interests on your chest.
Me? If I want a conversation I'll start it, and I prefer to do without being hassled by anyone. So I don't generally advertise *anything* on my shirt. Actual mileage may vary, and you should enjoy life the way you choose to enjoy it too.
Now:
Everything we do advertises something. The car you drive, the clothes you wear, the watch you wear, the shoes you wear. Your accent and vocabulary. Your demeanor and your dental health. Your bumper stickers. Your hands. Your haircut. All of these are socio-economic indicators. To think that nobody notices or that everyone is treated the same is silly. We can guide others interactions in many ways by controlling what they see about us. I can tell about 85% of what I need to know about someone in the first 15 seconds after shaking their hand and saying hello. I can take a pretty good guess as to where they are from, their level of education and economic success, and their role in society. You can influence this. You can accentuate things, or you can suppress things, or you can deliberately misguide things (for a while). So: Guide the discussion in their brains the way YOU want them guided.
As Trent said, use of misinformation is a tool too.... and there's a certain pleasure in simply not caring what others think, as long as it does not affect you adversely.
Willie
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