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Good reason for your spouse to know how to use your gun

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Gouranga

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My significant other keeps a .357 snubbie in the night stand and knows how to use all of my guns. She's a good shot, too.
 
Mine doesn't care one way or the other but has shot before. It's scenarios such as this one above that has me having a P7M8 at the ready rather than some other model with levers and buttons to worry about. Just grab, squeeze as one naturally would and it's ready to go. :)
 
My wife can handle a gun alright. I wish she would take more interest in it but at least she knows most basics...
 
My wife is not fond of them, but the girl can put a 3" group into the center of a target at 25' with her 9mm. The joke around here is if someone breaks in I am just going to give her my gun and go back to sleep.
 
My wife does not care to learn how to use my guns. She does however have a .38 revolver that is hers. She likes it because it's simple to operate.
 
Good reason for your spouse to know how to use your gun

Mine doesn't need to know how to use my gun; she has her own that she is very proficient with.
 
My now wife had no experience with guns other than a boyfriend who used one to intimidate her. Fast forward to meeting me years later. It only took a few conversations on the use of a gun as an equalizer and the safety it would have provided her during those times with her former boyfriend if she had her own gun to get her to agree to a range trip. Her gained knowledge and my and friends focus on safety put her more at ease as we educated her on the guns and safety information prior to the trip. Her first shot sealed the deal.
 
My wife has a limited interest in firearms but I gave her my .38 and showed her how to use it, including reloading when empty. She is a good shot but most importantly, she has agreed to go with me to do a four day training course in Nevada this year.
 
My current GF is a retired LEO. Good shot and great with the situational awareness too.:D For some reason she only REALLY likes S&W revolvers however!:confused: I like ALL handguns.:D
 
Know how to operate ALL of them!

My wife has 2 .357 revolvers and her own shotgun and knows how to use them all. While she doesn't really care to shoot my 1911's she DOES know how to use all of them and has spent time on the range shooting all the guns that are in the safe. She doesn't have to want/use/carry the same type of weapon that I have but she understands that she needs to know how to operate them all in case a situation that the OP linked to were ever to happen
 
Graves has hated guns ever since her father died from an accidental shooting...

Some people are too controlled by emotion. Would she have hated cars if he had died in a car accident?? How about snowmobiles? What if he was stabbed, would she forever refuse to use a kitchen knife?

Sucks for them both, but it's both of their faults. Doesn't sound like they used any forethought. How did the guy just burst into the house? Did the deceased just blindly open the door without looking?

Just poor planning and zero defensive situational awareness resulted in the husband dying and woman having to live with her stubborness.

Another note - how unlucky is she that two people in her family were killed (one accidently and one intentionally) by people with guns? Now that is bad luck!
 
Sucks for them both, but it's both of their faults.

I would tend to blame the criminals.

And yes, if a loved one dies from fire, drunk driving, alcoholism, drugs, shark attack, shooting, or whatever else, it can have an effect on people. That's actually pretty normal.

Being afraid of or disliking something doesn't make a person "anti".
 
I have taught my girlfriends to drive stick, and if I find one that is willing to get on my motorcycle, they will learn how to ride.

One should be able to work the things you are around in life in an emergency. For example, my mother is capable of driving stick, yet has never driven my dad's most recent stick car (that he has had for 5+ years), because she doesn't want to. Push came to shove, though, she would be able to drive it.

I do find the difference between "It just went off!" to "It wouldn't go off!" interesting from the POV of someone familiar with machines. It appears to me that the woman does not have a mechanically inclined, or a logically inclined mind. Not bashing, but that indicates to me emotional assumptions.

And yes, I know people that hate motorcycles because someone they knew was killed riding one, or snowmobiles because someone was killed on (well flying off) one. Yet two people were killed my senior year of high school in car crashes, and nobody was hating on cars. I don't have a list of rules for life like Gibbs, or the kid from Zombieland, but if I did, "In this world, logic need not apply." would be in the running for #1.
 
Gouranga, thank you for posting this. Wanting to know how to handle someone else's firearms, was the catalyst for me to take a basic handgun class at a local range. (I figured that if the firearms were going to be around, I wanted to know how to approach them intelligently.)

Before I took the class, I had no idea how to hold a firearm. The class covered a great deal about safety in everyday life, as well as about handgun safety and the basics of shooting. Taking the class was one of the best things I ever chose to do.

If the husbands have revolvers handy, it makes learning less daunting for those of us who are more comfortable with teapots than firearms. Being supportive of one's wife, mother, sister, aunt, daughter, etc., learning from others is a big help, too. Being able to be in a class with other women who also had no familiarity with firearms gave me confidence that I could learn the basics. It was comforting to find that the way I approached the class, and learning to shoot, was very much supported by the instructors. It was interesting to note, too, how differently the men in the class approached learning to shoot. I'm grateful for having had instructors who knew how to help and encourage all of the participants with all their differences.

It was a super beginning and gave me a well balanced, safety-oriented approach to learning to shoot. I have found that I have been able to build on that very nicely (rather than having to unlearn something improper or shoddy).

Learning the basics, learning how to practice, keeping a regular practice schedule, taking a few more lessons, etc., build confidence.

The news report is another sober reminder that we need to know how to take care of ourselves.

Thanks again for posting the report and encouragement for helping our loved ones know how to take care of themselves.
 
Very sad story. I've said before to folks, borrowing from the old "atheist in foxholes" saying that there is no such thing as an "anti" the moment the front door gets kicked in. Never thought it would be so clearly illustrated.
 
Glock. Don't have to think about the safety. Not saying it's for all. Nor is it better/worse than DA/SA but..

Someone posted a story somewhere here about a jewelry store owner getting held up. The owner had the faster draw but couldn't flip off his safety in the panic so he was unfortunately the only one shot...


Anyways, I taught the gf all safety and how to handle stove pipes. I think shes set after a few more times at the range. Even my mother who would never fire a gun, I sat her down and said this is your loving son teaching you how to protect yourself...just listen to me for 5 min, and taught her the basics. Will she ever fire it at the range? Maybe if hell freezes over sometime but does she know how to use it if her life depended on it? Yes.
 
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My 1911 and my .22s have safeties but none of those are guns that I keep in reach for home defense. I keep a gp100 in the safe loaded with .38 for the lady and my bedside is a glock 19. She can also shoot pretty well but like most of us she may very well stumble over a safety if duty called.
 
Spouse AND children (of approriate age) are REQUIRED to shoot EVERY gun in household at least every-other month or so often,, I hand them empty gun at range, and then observe proper loading,handling and clearing of any misfire's or ejection-failure,, my wife and 15-yr old daughter give me that "look" when required to run my AR's,hunting rifles,and shotguns but they understand you may not have a choice on what you defend yourself with or where it may happen,, we also talk about "what would you do" often,, all this because i decided to "test" my home-security 1-night when me and ma were "out for a cocktail" and i parked down street and 'broke-in' to find front door wide-open,un-attended TV blaringly so loudly no-one could hear me "break-in" I walked thru house and slapped 2-pieces of wood together to simulate "shots" as i encountered them throughout house,, after all the schools here teach them "lockdown" procedures for when they are there,, they HAVE to know how to be secure at home !!
 
My wife has limited interest in guns and will basically only shoot her Glock. This is why I'm going to all Glocks in the house. So no matter what she grabs it'll go bang for her.
 
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