I had a Colt Mustang or something (pocket 380) that did not function reliably. Got rid of it in a few months after getting it. IF a new handgun does not work right, I have no need for it. I'm pretty impatient with semi-auto pistols.
There is no reverse logic here. Because some semi-autos have problems does not mean all do. I have a P90 that can PROVE that to you. It's more reliable than a friggin' revolver, or at least AS reliable. It will feed anything, has never failed in thousands of rounds and through competition shooting.
The guns that I've had most trouble with were 1911s. They have design flaws, yes, I said it, JMB's design is FLAWED! Actually, it wasn't flawed for its application. In 1911, there was nothing, but hardball and, of course, the gun was designed for ball. Now I had one that had to be fixed before it'd feed ball, but most will feed ball. But, this ain't 1911. We're in a new century. Times change, designs improve over time. I ain't drivin' a model T, after all, not that one wouldn't get me around town, but no thanks. Yeah, you can install a barrel and modify the 1911 for an integral feed ramp. You might even be able to improve the insane angle at which the cartridges feed up that ramp, but hey, I could drop a DOHC 24 valve mutli-port EFI V6 in that Model T, too. It would then be a Model T....with a V6.
There are guns that have problems. Yep, there are 1911s that run perfectly, too. I take my firearms one at a time. I don't make conclusions about a whole category based on one gun. I am, however, wary of 1911s, twice burned and now I'm opinionated. But, other than that.......
I will give you this, revolvers are much more user friendly, don't require near the gun knowledge to make run right on the average. Just buy some ammo, if it's accurate, it will go bang. With an auto, you need to test your carry loads a lot more to gain confidence in it that it will be reliable. Once I've lived with an auto for a while and gain that confidence, I don't think anything about using it for defense, carrying it to protect my life. It takes a lot of rounds down range to gain that confidence from me, though, and after a new auto purchase, it might be six months before I start carrying it. In that regard, you might have a good point. I can see why impatience would keep you away from autos. I only own 4 center fire autos and over a dozen revolvers, so I am a little revolver biased myself.