I do carry regularly. I put this ankle gun on before I went to the store this AM and have it on now. I don't believe I'm paranoid. I don't believe I'm afraid. I suppose I don't really care if anyone thinks I'm either.
I don't carry in the shower nor do I make provisions to have one within arms reach at every given moment yet know where they are at all times.
I believe I've had a marginal amount of training to open up my eyes to what could happen at just about any given time.
I do believe the following:
If something bad will happen, it will happen when, for the most part you will least expect it.
Whatever happens, it will be over in seconds and you will have what you have on you to contend with that problem.
If you don't know what to do, you won't do it and you will not rise to the challenge but will revert to your level of preparedness.
None of this is paranoia or fear. It is a simple fact. If you think other, that's OK too.
I live in a nice neighborhood, have quiet, peace loving neighbors. I am a quiet , peace loving person.
When I initially got involved with self defense training, I was probably less calm than I am now. I was involved in a situation that I was ill prepared for and nothing bad became of it.
I started training and eventually became quite a bit more comfortable with myself. I found I didn't get mad at idiot drivers and didn't argue about stupid stuff as often.
Where some people will say I'm afraid or paranoid and that's why I started training, there is some truth in that but I don't think it applies now. I didn't even think about the gun I have on, in my office in suburbia, USA where absolutely nothing could possibly have me need a firearm, until I read this thread. I go to places where it's not legal to carry and I don't. I believe I can't live my life worrying about what might happen. I do probably make myself a bit more aware of my surroundings when I don't carry but it has become second nature to survey my surroundings.
If all this falls within anyone's description of paranoia or fear then so be it. I don't feel it is and my opinion means more to me than yours does.
Carry on. Or don't.