Married, and carry at home. My wife has a CCW but doesn't carry all the time; I carry whenever and wherever it's legal. I wish she would carry more, but I'm just glad that she does so at all. I'm of the school of thought to carry everywhere, so my normal habit is to have it with me and not have to think about "do I have it or don't I". I don't expect to have trouble at home, but then I don't expect trouble anywhere else either but it could still happen. I'm sure that none of the people who got shot in any of the recent public place or church shootings thought anything was going to happen to them that day either, yet still it did. Hope for the best but be ready for the worst just in case, especially since it's so easy to do and to do it safely.
Re-carrying at home, that is concealed and not open carry. If I do it properly, it won't show and it's thus not even an issue of contention. Baggy cargo shorts are good for this.