MedGrl
Member
I was having lunch with a friend on monday and the subject of guns came up. I mentioned that I am looking into applying for my concealed carry permit. Now this friend has never shown any anti sentaments and has actualy been interested in a couple of my stories from the range. But after i mentioned the possibility of obtaining a CHL she got quiet. After a moment a conversation followed that I am going to try my best to recreate
Friend: Why would you carry?
Me: Why not?
Friend: Because it's dangerouse
Me: not realy. I've taken saftey courses and I am very careful about how I handle guns
Friend: I have no doubt that you're qualified to handle guns but why would you want to carry one. It's dangerouse.
Me: It realy isn't
Friend: Well...would you be willing to take more risks or do things you normaly wouldn't do without having a gun with you...Like walking down a dark alley alone?
Me: NO! I'm a self defense instructor I know better than that!
Friend: But if you had a gun you would feel more confident and be willing to go down that alley
Me: No...I realy wouldn't. If anything having a concealed carry makes you act safer than you normaly would because it forces you to think about your actions and what the consecences of those actions would be.
I highlited in red the two things my friend said that made me want to post this conversation here. The realization that people actualy think that people who carry put themselves in stupid/dangerouse positions because they are carrying shocked me. Like I told my friend. Concealed carry should make you more cautiouse than you would otherwise be. Am I wrong in that? I don't think so but I value the opinions of members here at THR. What do you all think?
Friend: Why would you carry?
Me: Why not?
Friend: Because it's dangerouse
Me: not realy. I've taken saftey courses and I am very careful about how I handle guns
Friend: I have no doubt that you're qualified to handle guns but why would you want to carry one. It's dangerouse.
Me: It realy isn't
Friend: Well...would you be willing to take more risks or do things you normaly wouldn't do without having a gun with you...Like walking down a dark alley alone?
Me: NO! I'm a self defense instructor I know better than that!
Friend: But if you had a gun you would feel more confident and be willing to go down that alley
Me: No...I realy wouldn't. If anything having a concealed carry makes you act safer than you normaly would because it forces you to think about your actions and what the consecences of those actions would be.
I highlited in red the two things my friend said that made me want to post this conversation here. The realization that people actualy think that people who carry put themselves in stupid/dangerouse positions because they are carrying shocked me. Like I told my friend. Concealed carry should make you more cautiouse than you would otherwise be. Am I wrong in that? I don't think so but I value the opinions of members here at THR. What do you all think?