Evaluate These Encounters. Were They Saves?

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Silverhair

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These really happened to my wife.

Location: A major Texas city in a very high crime, run down, industrial, area of that city. Warehouse/factory with office space. Has been burglarized multiple times, despite bars on windows, alarms, etc.

Warehouse is on the East side of a street that is about 70 feet wide. North end of the block the street crosses a major street. The South end of the block has one narrow street that goes East for one block and then connects to a significant street. No South or West outlets.

There are no residences. The other buildings on the street are warehouses for the business that we will discuss.

Background: My wife would arrive at 6AM every weekday morning and open the steel door, step inside and lock the door. The area around the door is clear for about 100 feet in all directions. There is nothing close that anybody can hide behind in that distance. A little further North on the West side are some trees. Directly across is a truck partking lot. To the South, on the same side, about 100 feet from the door are some columns. The door is almost flush with the wall.

Twice she has arrived with a burglary in progress. She didn't have a CHL at the time. Once I was with her with a .45, Sig-Sauer P-220. I pulled my gun and the burglar dropped his loot and ran. I didn't shoot, nor did I pursue. The other time the police got there in time and captured the burglar.

I told her that she had to get a CHL. Sooner or later, probably sooner, somebody was going to notice that she opened the door, alone, daily, at 6AM and would be waiting for her. Once he forced her to open the door, he would have to silence her, so she was in deadly danger as I saw things.

The block is ALWAYS completely deserted at 6AM.

Block has lights, and there is a street light above the door.

About 100 feet to the North on the West side of

My wife: At the time she was 59, 4' 10". She had, and has, a CHL. (Texas for CCW.) Carries a .38 S&W airweight w/ Crimson Trace, loaded with alternating Glazer (first shot) and hydrashock, carried in a Thompson Gunny Pack. Although the gun is concealed, to a street smart person a woman with both a purse and a "fanny pack" screams GUN.

Tactics: Enters the block from the side street at the South, drives the car past the door, makes a U-turn so her lights can sweep the area, then drives past the door and makes another U-turn so her lights can again sweep the area. If anybody is seen, she leaves.

Parks car about 30 feet North of the door - required by company, can't park in front of door. Gets out of car with her hand inside the gunny pack, hand on gun in ready position, finger beside trigger. Looks around again, walks to door, looking around as she does so. Taps in door code, looks around again, enters office, door auto closes and locks, turns on lights, makes an inspection of the offices with her hand still on the gun. Once satisfied, starts to work, but stays alert for odd noises. Others arrive at 7AM. (Office space is locked off from the rest of the factory.)

I have taught her that if it ever happened, because the perp would have to start his approach from 100 feet away, if she saw him first, he would tell her some sort of story as to why he had to come up and talk to her. She was trained to NOT engage in any converstation but to only give the warning, "Stay away !" At about half way across the street she was to draw and present the gun, repeating, "Stay away !" If the perp continues to approach - SHOOT.

First incident: Happened about three months after she got her CHL. Temperature was about 28 degrees. She went through her approach drill, saw no one, got out of the car, hand in gunny pack on gun. A young male, dressed in light weight clothing, street hood style, stepped out from behind a truck in a parking lot across the street, about 120 feet away. Walking very quickly, he approached her. She quickly saw him, turned to face him and placed her back against the wall, yelled, "Stay away !" He continued to approach, claiming he needed directions to the bridge where the homeless people stay. She said, "I don't know. Go away !" He stopped about halfway across the street, at about 40 feet from her, paused, then fast walked away.

Second incident: About four months later. Weather was moderate. This perp was dressed about the same as the first one. This time he stepped from behind one of the trees to try to approach her. He claimed to be panhandling. She did the same as before. He stopped at about the same place, then understanding dawned on him. He threw his hands in the air, backwalked away, saying, "Lady, I ain't got no gun. I ain't got no knife." Then he turned and ran.

Your opinions please BTW - She doesn't work there anymore. The place went bankrupt. Anyway, what is your opinion? I realize that it is impossible to know for certain, but do you think she was in serious danger in those two incidents. What likely would have happened if she had not been armed?

We have talked about them, and she has said that at the time, she knew that she would be able to pull the gun and shoot if they had kept coming. She describes it as a calm determination settling on her that she was not going to be an easy victim. We had drilled with airsoft guns with me playing the bad guy, and she was about to let the drills take over if the guys had made another couple of steps. We are glad that the perps ran away, no shots fired.

Your opinions?
 
Two things in a quick skim of this post --

I'd vary the "approach" so that anyone casing the place doesn't have your routine pegged.

I'd worry about stepping into a building like this while someone who had broken and entered would be hiding inside.

Given the history of the building / area, I'm betting you could arrange to meet with local police in the AM to open the building.

-- Find another line of trade? . . . just sayin' . . .
 
Colin's quote:
Hard to say. I'm not a "street person" so I don't consider fanny packs to be menacing. Since she never had to draw, its impossible to know if they knew she had a gun, or just decided to leave.

A fanny pack by itself doesn't say gun. A fanny pack on a woman who is carrying a purse too does mean a high possibility of a gun. Just like a man with a wallet print in both his rear pocket AND in a front pocket is a danger sign.

Reread the second incident. It is rather obvious that he figured out that she was armed.
 
Let me see:wife alone being approched by a stranger.Wife deters stranger without displaying weapon.No shots fired,noone hurt,no cops,courts or lawyers involved.Wife safe. Sounds like a winner to me!
"Was she in serious danger?"-as you say no way to know for sure.Did she FEEL threatened? Would the proverbial 'reasonable person' feel threatened in those circumstances? Did she react reasonably? I say yes:take her out for a nice dinner & celebrate.
She wouldn't have a single sister by chance would she?
 
do you think she was in serious danger in those two incidents. What likely would have happened if she had not been armed?

From my experience and where I was born and raised (City of Chicago, 60's and 70's), YES. She was in danger.

What would have happened? At best, a robbery. At worst--well, I think you get the picture.

Tell your wife that she did well--and kudos to you, sir, for teaching and training her to stay safe. Well met!
 
ALWAYS TRUST YOUR SPIDEY SENSES. She felt there was a danger and acted appropriately. GOOD FOR HER.

If she was wrong, SO WHAT! Making an error toward the safe side is NO PROBLEM. An error the other way could be fatal.
 
Second 'The Gift of Fear':eek:ught to be required reading despite anti-gun comments.Also 'Strong on Defense':same "Heed yer gut" advise & neutral on guns.
Second Powderman:Ya done good Silverhair.
 
Those were both saves. In that deserted area, at that time of day, nobody was down there collecting for the red cross.
 
Were they saves?

IMHO it isn't possible to know. Certainly both incidents were saves from any further contact with the individuals in question. How hazardous further contact would have been is not possible to say, given the circumstances- since there was no further contact in either case.

Not too many days ago the following news story was reported from Texas:

http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/08/17/clerk.abducted.ap/index.html

DALLAS, Texas (AP) -- A body found in a remote area has been identified as the clerk whose abduction from a store in a small North Texas town was recorded by security cameras, authorities said Sunday.

Security cameras captured the abduction of the clerk, whose face has been digitally obscured.

Mindy Daffern, 46, had been missing since Friday from the store her family owns in the city of Scotland, 130 miles northwest of Dallas. Surveillance camera videotape showed her being confronted at gunpoint by an unmasked man who walked her outside the store.

A man suspected in the abduction led investigators to the body Saturday, and Texas Rangers confirmed it was Daffern, Archer County Sheriff Ed Daniels said Sunday.

Wallace Bowman Jr., 30, of Bowie, was being held on charges of aggravated robbery and kidnapping, and Daniels said he is expected to be charged with capital murder. His bail was set at $3 million.

Bowman did not yet have an attorney to speak for him, Daniels said.

Daffern's body was found in a remote area near the town of Sunset in neighboring Montague County. Investigators were awaiting on an autopsy report, Daniels said.

"She was just a down-to-earth, good person," he said. They're a very close-knit family, and of course it's just completely devastated the family."

Video from one store camera showed a man casually walking into the store and handing Daffern a cup, then pulling out a handgun and pointing it at her face. Watch Daffern's kidnapping »

A second camera showed the gunman walking her out of the store. Daffern was seen handing the cup back to the man, who sipped from it while holding the gun on her with his other hand. Daffern had her hands up and appeared to plead with the man. Video from a third camera showed a sport utility vehicle leaving the store parking lot.

On the video, the gunman showed no apparent concern about appearing on camera, and his face was clearly visible.

"I'm not sure he realized those were cameras, I don't know," Daniels said. "I haven't talked to him, I don't know what he was thinking at that point."

Bowie police began searching for Bowman after recognizing him on the video. On Saturday, police found an SUV matching the vehicle on the video at a motel about 40 miles away, Daniels said.

Authorities found Bowman at the motel Saturday morning. He was unarmed, and the weapon used in the crime has not been found, Daniels said.

He initially told authorities that he'd let Daffern out of the vehicle at a rural road in Archer County and that she'd run across a field, the sheriff said. "There was nothing in that field to indicate she'd ever been there," Daniels said.

Court records show Bowman was sentenced in 1997 to seven years for aggravated sexual assault and failed to register as a sex offender in 2004. Bowman was placed on probation after being convicted for burglary in 1996, according to court records.
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There's a followup story linking Bowman to two other recent murders at http://www.timesrecordnews.com/news/2008/aug/19/bowman-linked-2-other-deaths/ .

My point is, you never know who or what you might be dealing with when a stranger appears in questionable circumstances on the street. Odds are those two were panhandlers and relatively harmless. But as I have said before, it's not the odds that matter. Its the stakes. Your life is literally on the line when encounters of this nature take place. While it is wrong to over-react, it is dangerous not to treat the sitiation with due caution.

IMHO your wife's preparation for and conduct during the encounters was reasonable and proper given the circumstances. It was likely as much her attitude as anything else that kept the two at bay- BUT she was prepared to cope with the situation if forced to do so, and that is the important thing.

Take a look at a recent post from trainer John Farnam, on a situation regarding one of his students- http://www.defense-training.com/quips/27July08.html , at the bottom of the page and titled "Success Story." Compare notes and see what you think.

Regards to both of you, and Stay Safe,

lpl
 
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