To answer the question, this gathering is at my parents house. I'm currently renting a garage apartment from them, on the same property, seperate from the house. My dad has been a life long gunnie, like I said, he's the one that got me into guns at a young age.
I've told him that I'm not hiding my stuff, being made to feel ashamed of my hobby, which really pisses me off. My dad said this was fine, leave the stuff where it is.
I've made the invite to go to the range several month's ago, no response from the brother, which means he is not open minded enough to go. He does not want to see or experience an activity that will shatter his prejudicial view of guns or gun owners. It seems that a lot of anti-gun people have this attitude, its really pathetic in my book.
Several month's ago, I wrote my brother a 5 page long letter explaining my views on guns and why I believe the way I do. I addressed the concealed carry issue with relevant facts, the founding father's views on guns, historical supreme court rulings, the fallacy of police protection, the legitimate sporting use of guns, self defense, the "hobby" of guns, I pretty much covered all the bases that I could think of. I also included an abbreviated fact sheet from gunfacts.info. I don't know if my brother read it, but if he did, he know's where I stand. I think my brother has always wondered where I stand politically, he's had a suspicion that I might be a Republican. After reading my letter, he should have no doubt that I am a CONSERVATIVE.
My stance on guns pretty much says it all.
I have a suspicion that my brother knows where I stand, that I am firm in my belief and he will respect that. I don't expect guns to come up tomorrow, if that happens, then it will be a good day.
I wish it were possible to have a reasoned discussion of this issue with my brother, I would enjoy it. I'm curious as to why he believes the way he does, I'd like to feel him out. Then I would like to politely debunk his positions with relevant facts, I've got a ton of them from
www.gunfacts.info. The only problem is, my brother has a short temper, is confrontational, and gets wrapped up in emotion very easily. Speaking of people that probably shouldn't have guns, my brother is one of them! Like I said, confrontational, short tempered = trouble with a gun. Maybe he's projecting his own problems on the rest of us,
projectionism. This might have something to do with how he feels.
I, on the other hand, am very non confrontational, level headed, and it takes a lot to piss me off.