This seems to me to be more a question of your standards than the exact "pro-gun" debate. Personally, I have come to find that most people we get involved with have some pros and some cons. If this is her only "con" then I wouldn't really call this a deal breaker. However, if she also has several other things that do not work for you then perhaps this is your way of asking a community of people to help you in your decision to get rid of her.
I have done a lot of learning about women in the past few years due to my miserable ability to maintain a relationship (no more, thankfully!) Here are a few things that I learned that are extremely important in long term relationships:
#1 - she must be clinically sane. That means she's no on meds for being bi-polar, depressed, etc.
The rest is summed up in this nice paragraph:
The three major Female Trait qualities that men should be aware of and look for in a long term mate are: Integrity, made up of Loyalty, Trust, and Honesty; Giving; and Flexibility.
Therefore, I would ask you ... is the Flexible? If she is not flexible, then you have a real problem on your hands. If she will never change her mind, and never does, then the relationship as a whole probably is at risk over time. I mean, if she wants one thing and only one thing, and is never open to new ideas, I think that is more of a problem than this one issue you are pointing out ... which really is just symbolic of her lack of flexibility.
I have done a lot of learning about women in the past few years due to my miserable ability to maintain a relationship (no more, thankfully!) Here are a few things that I learned that are extremely important in long term relationships:
#1 - she must be clinically sane. That means she's no on meds for being bi-polar, depressed, etc.
The rest is summed up in this nice paragraph:
The three major Female Trait qualities that men should be aware of and look for in a long term mate are: Integrity, made up of Loyalty, Trust, and Honesty; Giving; and Flexibility.
Therefore, I would ask you ... is the Flexible? If she is not flexible, then you have a real problem on your hands. If she will never change her mind, and never does, then the relationship as a whole probably is at risk over time. I mean, if she wants one thing and only one thing, and is never open to new ideas, I think that is more of a problem than this one issue you are pointing out ... which really is just symbolic of her lack of flexibility.