http://www.firearmstactical.com/hwfe.htm
From the top of page 11 "The critical wounding components for hand gun ammunition, in order of importance, are penetration and permanent cavity."
First paragraph of page 12 "Given adequate penetration, a larger diameter bullet will have an edge in wounding effectiveness."
http://m4carbine.net/showthread.php?t=19887
"As you increase bullet size and mass from 9 mm/357 Sig, to .40 S&W, to .45 ACP, more tissue is crushed, resulting in a larger permanent cavity. In addition, the larger bullets often offer better performance through intermediate barriers. For some, the incremental advantages of the larger calibers are offset by weapon platform characteristics"
Your own links don't support your conclusions
Along with these, I rely on my experience. I have spent two tours in Iraq as an US Army infantryman (invasion of 2003 and 2005). Since leaving the Army I have worked as a patrol officer in one of the largest cities in the US.
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While your experience is important to you, just as mine is to me. The Facklerits will dismiss it as anecdotal.