Boy, what an interesting thread. I almost don't know where to begin.
First, though, Sam1911, kudos for some very well written and reasoned posts. You're clearly an intelligent and articulate individual. I agree with every word you've penned (oh wait, that must mean I'm also intelligent & articulate...!
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Gosh, where to start.
If there is a state/local law that forbids me from carrying in a particular location, I either won't visit or I won't carry. I don't like it one bit, but I obey the law. This includes federal facilities, places that may be off-limits by statue (bar, school, etc.), or in those states that have a provision in law where a private property owner may post his facility as off-limits to CCW. Some states offer these exclusions and the notice must be posted in a conspicuous fashion using certain verbiage, etc.
If i visit a private home and the owner specifically asks me to not carry (assuming that individual knew I was carrying - most would not), I would not visit. It would be very unlikely that I would strike a friendship with an individual that believed that I would be a risk to him or his family anyway).
If I am visiting a public venue (although private property) and there are signs posted
requesting individuals to not carry, I'll make the call - but more than likely ignore the request. If discovered carrying (and I can't envision that ever happening, but, you know, people do fall/slip/etc.), and asked to leave because of the no-firearm policy, I'll leave. I won't be completing any transaction and will likely ask for a refund if I had already bought something. I'll vote with my pocketbook. Should one refuse to leave then one could be arrested for trespass.
Most locations are public venues that happen to be private property.
Would I visit a gun show that had a no-ccw sign? Yeah, probably. Would I carry ccw at a shooting event where I was a participant? Yeah, absolutely.
Why?
Judge me for what I've done. Not what you might think I'll do.
Are there stupid people at gun shows? Abso****enlootly! What a great place for somebody to go ballistic and start shooting people. "One of our own"? Maybe. A crazy guy? For sure. An antigunner? Maybe.
I don't like it one bit when I'm at a gun show or a shooting event and somebody violates rule #1. It happens
every time there are lots of people and lots of guns in the same place. Yet forcing me to abdicate my responsibility to protect my family and myself (and through extension, the welfare of my family) is not the solution.
I wonder what the community here will say if a uniformed police officer was to visit a gun show. Would you expect the officer to unload and zip tie his duty weapon? Probably not. Why not? This isn't a dig at police officers, btw, rather a dig at those that think guns are somehow inanimate objects that come to life when lots of them get together.
All I ask is that society (you, my neighbors, the business owner, the government) accord me the same respect and ability to protect myself and my family that it has to the uniformed officer above.
Judge me for what I've done. Not what you might think I'll do.
Oh, and btw, if I'm accidentally shot at a gun show because some dofus was playing with his ccw or he picked up a loaded gun or whatever? He's getting shot if I'm not dead. Plain and simple.
I guess those insurance rates are going to go up, huh?
Why? Everyone is responsible for the cardinal rule.