Politics
Here are two bingo-ramas that approach my feeling about politics:
hso said:
The problem with discussing politics on the internet is that everyone wants to talk and no seems to know how to listen.
ElevenMike said:
That someone avoids political topics on THR doesn't mean they aren't paying attention to politics at all.
To both of those I'll ad this: I get nauseated any more listening to broad generalizations about "liberals" v "conservatives", Republicrats v Demopublilcans v Libergreens v Greenatarians.
Political discussions (most notably on gun forums for some reason) always fall into bashing this group or that group. "It's the dognmad liberals that are at fault for all the bad in the world; if we could just get rid of them, everything would be fine."
I know - as either clients, acquaintances or friends - people on every edge of the political web, from what most of you would call hard core conservatives to hard core liberals, libertarians, and even some eco-anarchists. I know them and relate to them as people, not as political entities.
They all know that I have one rule for conversations: if you want to bash people, bash individuals, not groups. I will listen when someone says, "I [strike]hate[/strike] dislike {insert one or more: Bush, Gore, Obama, McCain ...}", but when someone starts off a sentence with, "Those liberals/conservatives are at it again", I either shut down or walk away. I just won't play.
Such labeling is, IMO, akin to sexism, racism or agism. People are people, and trying to box them up in tidy little packages is somewhere between folly, hubris and injustice.
If I've learned one important thing on THR in three years, it's this: politics is THE most divisive topic that one can raise here. Where ever there's politics, there's going to be an argument that often leads to a thread closure. Hell, like Hso said, they had to close down an entire subforum (L&Pee) because of it. (Religion could be a close second ... but for some reason, it's rarely discussed.)
I've also learned another important lesson on THR. A person's political views doesn't contribute squat to whether I like them or not as people. When I came here, I was coming from more of a liberal/libertarian even green perspective. I actually had fears about the number of self-avowed "conservatives" that I perceived on the forum, because they seemed to hold such strong (at times irrational) opinions about people (like me) of a more "liberal" bent... <added by edit> ... which is where I (incorrectly)
thought I was at the time, and I didn't want to be judged by my politics. Since that time, I've learned by more careful observation that judgementalism is not a function of any one political flavor: anyone who votes any way can do it. </edit>
This also relates to why I [strike]HATE[/strike] disdain a two party political system. (Yes, yes, I know; it's technically not. But let's be real; in practice, it is.) If we had a system that [strike]allowed[/strike] encouraged multiple parties that had to work with proportional representations, I might like it better.
However, being on THR for three years, I've come to realize that I'm neither liberal, nor green, nor libertarian nor conservative. I'm all of those, rolled into a complex psyche with opinions that belong to all of those categories. I can't be - or is it that I refuse to be? - categorized or labeled.
IMO, labeling someone as a "conservative" or "liberal" is a gross over-simplication of a complex human being with complex views. Sure, some are strict conservatives, or strict liberals. But scratch many "liberals" [as many would define them based on their voting habits] and just beneath the skin you'll find some elements of conservatism. Same for most conservatives [as many would define them based on their voting habits].
It's that painting with a broad brush that keeps me out of political discussions. If people would discuss specific statesmen/women and their positions, or particular laws, I might play more often.
But I'm tired of painting with broad brushes; I'm tired of reading about this group or that group being bashed. I just won't play. So when I see a political discussion, I just walk away and find a thread where I can discuss guns ... or anything but politics.
OK, I'm wearing a flame suit.
Nem