Red Neck64
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Find a new girlfriend,she's apparently going down the highway heading toward alcoholism.
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Elza
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I offer no advice about your girlfriend. The choice is yours to make.
Regarding the guns I offer three things for you to consider:
1) She kills someone.
2) She kills you.
3) She kills herself.
In all three scenarios you will be involved legally and certainly share moral responsibility. (Although you won’t really have to worry about these in scenario #2.)
Keep the girl if you are so inclined but under no circumstances should she have access to the guns at any time.
Regarding the guns I offer three things for you to consider:
1) She kills someone.
2) She kills you.
3) She kills herself.
In all three scenarios you will be involved legally and certainly share moral responsibility. (Although you won’t really have to worry about these in scenario #2.)
Keep the girl if you are so inclined but under no circumstances should she have access to the guns at any time.
Sorry it took so long to reply. I had to go into work fow a few hours this morning and as I am sure all you can understand I was up pretty late last night.
Let me start off with saying that I have read all the replys to my original post and I have made some obvious conclusions.
1) the fornication thing................not THR.
2) I realize now that in my OP I didnt give enough background info on my girlfriend and the minimal frequency of these binges. Didnt think I needed to as how I was not asking for relationship advise.
3) It is plain to see that most of the replys are from well meaning,thoughtfull, and genuinely concerned people. Not that I expected any less, just that It was nice to see it unfold so fast. oops out of room..........
Let me start off with saying that I have read all the replys to my original post and I have made some obvious conclusions.
1) the fornication thing................not THR.
2) I realize now that in my OP I didnt give enough background info on my girlfriend and the minimal frequency of these binges. Didnt think I needed to as how I was not asking for relationship advise.
3) It is plain to see that most of the replys are from well meaning,thoughtfull, and genuinely concerned people. Not that I expected any less, just that It was nice to see it unfold so fast. oops out of room..........
CrawdaddyJim
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Writing questions is a science. The old saying garbage in gets garbage out is true.
The question is. Are you ready to accept the consiquenses of not securing your weapons?
No, then lock them up.
Yes, bebop on down the road.
Why do I get the feeling this is a "social scientist" doing research?
The question is. Are you ready to accept the consiquenses of not securing your weapons?
No, then lock them up.
Yes, bebop on down the road.
Why do I get the feeling this is a "social scientist" doing research?
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4) I will go out and look for a safe today. So many reasons to have one and so few not to.
It was embarrassing to post this very personal matter. However, I felt that the relationship advise that I did receive was good to hear and I appreciate the concern.
It was embarrassing to post this very personal matter. However, I felt that the relationship advise that I did receive was good to hear and I appreciate the concern.
Thernlund
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Honestly, the way I read you was that your GF was just out partying and I didn't see anything wrong. I am somewhat annoyed on your behalf that anyone saw fit to even mention your relationship. CrawdaddyJim said that writing questions is a science. True enough. But understanding them is an art. And some just aren't that artistic, eh?
-T.
XavierBreath
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guajiro,
It looks like you found some good firearms related advice and are acting on it.
There is other well intentioned advice here as well, I think, concerning your girlfriend. I hope you will at least consider it to be food for thought. I don't think the bulk of it was given in judgement, but just as folks with prior experience wanting to offer solid, honest advice. Read over it all again in a few days.
Since you have made the decision to secure your firearms in a safe, the firearm related problem is resolved. Because this is not a relationship or alcohol use forum I am closing your thread to prevent what you may presently see as further judgement of your personal life. My closing of the thread is no indictment of you.
Welcome to The High Road. I hope you stay and enjoy the forum.
It looks like you found some good firearms related advice and are acting on it.
There is other well intentioned advice here as well, I think, concerning your girlfriend. I hope you will at least consider it to be food for thought. I don't think the bulk of it was given in judgement, but just as folks with prior experience wanting to offer solid, honest advice. Read over it all again in a few days.
Since you have made the decision to secure your firearms in a safe, the firearm related problem is resolved. Because this is not a relationship or alcohol use forum I am closing your thread to prevent what you may presently see as further judgement of your personal life. My closing of the thread is no indictment of you.
Welcome to The High Road. I hope you stay and enjoy the forum.
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