pacerdude
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First off, I am not sure if this is the correct area for this topic, so Moderators if this is the wrong area feel free to move it.
Last night my girlfriend and I were talking about nothing in particular when something on tv made the subject of guns come up, and our conversation steered to guns and gun rights. My girlfriend knows that I am a "gun person", as she calls it, and she has no problem with my interest in, or owning of guns. She writes it off as "I'm a guy, from the South who likes guns", so it's no big shock that I support owning them and recently joined the NRA. She has no problem with me having the guns at my apartment put up in my safe, or even having them in the car, which is legal in GA even without a CCW permit.
However, our main difference of opinion comes from her idea that for the most part there is no reason for me or anyone to carry a gun around all the time with police officers and soldiers or hunters being the exception. She just can't fathom why I would need a CCW permit, or why I would ever have a use for carrying a gun around at the mall.
I however feel that it is important for me to get my CCW permit. Now, she comes from a home without guns and I have offered to take her to the range and show her how they work, because I think it would be prudent that she knows how to use a firearm as well, just in case something bad happens and having a gun at the mall or hiking or whatever turns out to be a good idea.
Also she understands that I want to carry the gun for protection, and I tried explaining to her due to my pacemaker, I cannot get into physical confrontations and walk away the same as other men might be able to.
Guys how did you convince your girlfriends, wives, significant others etc... to see the value of a CCW permit and or carrying a gun around to the mall or movies or wherever you are going, if she was originally against carrying???
Last night my girlfriend and I were talking about nothing in particular when something on tv made the subject of guns come up, and our conversation steered to guns and gun rights. My girlfriend knows that I am a "gun person", as she calls it, and she has no problem with my interest in, or owning of guns. She writes it off as "I'm a guy, from the South who likes guns", so it's no big shock that I support owning them and recently joined the NRA. She has no problem with me having the guns at my apartment put up in my safe, or even having them in the car, which is legal in GA even without a CCW permit.
However, our main difference of opinion comes from her idea that for the most part there is no reason for me or anyone to carry a gun around all the time with police officers and soldiers or hunters being the exception. She just can't fathom why I would need a CCW permit, or why I would ever have a use for carrying a gun around at the mall.
I however feel that it is important for me to get my CCW permit. Now, she comes from a home without guns and I have offered to take her to the range and show her how they work, because I think it would be prudent that she knows how to use a firearm as well, just in case something bad happens and having a gun at the mall or hiking or whatever turns out to be a good idea.
Also she understands that I want to carry the gun for protection, and I tried explaining to her due to my pacemaker, I cannot get into physical confrontations and walk away the same as other men might be able to.
Guys how did you convince your girlfriends, wives, significant others etc... to see the value of a CCW permit and or carrying a gun around to the mall or movies or wherever you are going, if she was originally against carrying???
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