now she is mad at me for making her upset.
Better than doing nothing and letting the stalker make her dead.
maybe I have done too much.
Like WHAT? Let the police know that a very capable stalker is afoot? Convince her that this is not something to be dismissed lightly? Take steps to protect her life - and by ripple effect, protect the lives of those who would be traumatized by her brutal slaying?
Ignoring evil does not make it go away.
Evil will spread until it is opposed - and can only be opposed on a personal & viceral level. All too often we wait for bad things to just go away. All to often we try to reason with evil, file paperwork demanding compliance with good, and say "stop! or I'll say 'stop!' again!".
Too often we choose to do nothing until a lethal assault is in progress. That's too :banghead:'ing late.
Recall Cooper's Color Codes (grossly paraphrased):
- White: unaware of risk
- Yellow: aware of possibility of risk
- Orange: aware of potential risk
- Red: aware of actual risk
Your friend should be at Red. We're talking Hurricane Katrina analogy here: the threat is named, identified, and incoming - with only when and how and to what degree unsure, and one is gravely foolish to not prepare accordingly. If an assault fails to materialize, it's only because he had a few higher brain cells spark and convinced him maybe it wasn't a good idea. Hopefully the police report was acted on, cops contacted him and suggested backing off.
The warning was there. Take confidence that you did act on it, regardless of how it upset her; one's family may be upset by being abruptly thrown in the car and hastily drivine out of New Orleans, especially if "nothing happens", but it's far better than being killed by a square-on Category 5 that gave a week's warning.
Your friend may be lucky and no harm occur. Remind her: mine wasn't.