Let's see,...
Wife One... violently anti, would not allow me to keep anything around... divorce by ireeconcilable diffferences.
Wife Two ...neutral to slight anti, did not like them in house but tolerated them, divorce by irreconcilable differences. After divorce, sought me out fopr info on how to get CCW'd and weapon selection advice.
Period of much bachelorhood.... every girl I dated got to the hobbies question and it was at the top of the list. If they were against it, there were no repeat visits.
Wife Three... nurse, has seen the damage guns cause, is personally anti and does not like them at all. Has accepted the fact that they will be in the home. Has no problem with me CCW-ing, but will not do so herself. Hates the evil black guns and does not want to learn about any of it. Will not allow black evil guns into home. Seems to think the pretty wood cowboy guns by Marlin are OK though, as is that M-1A.
Also does not seem to have a problem with coach style SBS shotguns, but no Franchis for me.
I consider it a huge win that I've been able to get an indoor range established in my garage/workshop. She's even helped set up/revamp the reloading area. In fact, she actually shot the 3" M-66 with a cylinder full of Speer plastic bulets and shows some natural aptitude.
The trick seems to be patience and just not pushing the agenda. I like to go to gun shows, if she wwants to be with me during the time one is around, she'll tag around. Same with summer shooting league time this coming year. I figure in a couple of years, she'll become acclimated.