You'd think that with all you've been thru that you wouldn't be so quick to judge.
I can say what I do because I've been through what I have. We (almost) all fall on hard times. It's up to you to get up. Yeah, there were times I had to seriously pep talk myself, but ultimately I knew things wouldn't get better unless
I made them better.
I have sympathy and empathy for people who get in a rough spot. I have sympathy and empathy for those who are rendered physically or mentally unable to get out of the rough spot. I
DON'T have sympathy for people who choose to blame others and circumstance when they
could better their own situation.
It's all about the choices we make. I also didn't say
NO ONE is a victim of circumstance. I said
FEW are.
The America dream will not be given to you. You can have it, but you have to work for it. Some people have to work very hard.
ETA:
That is an extremely bold statement. While your life might be gravy it's not for a lot of people. You can't say a higher income is within everyone's grasp when you don't know their skillset or the job market where they live. Just like you can't tell someone to uproot and move to find a job. There are a lot of factors that determine ones ability to acquire work.
I don't agree with the OP in getting angry at others for having more then he does. But I hate people that tell you to pull up your bootstraps and go get more work so you can make more money. It's not that easy for a good portion of the country.
My life has hardly been gravy. Above (post #89) I highlighted just a few of the tribulations I've dealt with.
I absolutely can say higher income is within reach of non-disabled persons without knowing their skillset or local job market; You can improve/expand your skill set, and you can change your location. Why can't we tell someone to uproot to find a job? People do it all the time.
I didn't have to move to better my situation, but I absolutely had to expand my skillset. I not only had to keep improving on the career skills and education I was already using, but to run a business, I had to learn management, advertising and bookkeeping/accounting. Think it was easy? Think I didn't struggle for awhile? Think I still don't spend 70-80+ hours a week working? Think I don't have stress?
Once again, if your able bodied and of sound mind, there is absolutely nothing stopping you from
earning the American dream. Doesn't mean it'll be easy; It might mean long hours, it might mean sacrifices for a time, it might even mean cutting some family ties. But those are choices you get to make.