twoblink
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So I'm on the scooter with the wife, and down rolls the window of a taxi, and out pops a bunch of trash.
I point at the guy, and yell out "Hey! Where do you get off just littering?"
Of course, some greasy faced 6-foot fat bald man in a wife-beater t-shirt starts yelling and spraying spit.
"What is your problem?" he yells at me.
"You littering is the problem" I replied
"What, you think it's illegal or something? I can litter if I want!"
"Well, it __IS__ illegal, and I'm so glad that you act like a model citizen and throw trash everywhere."
The guy then gets out of the taxi, and gets in my face..
"What are you going to do about it little @($&!(*%!(&@!(* "??
I'm a passivist in the Oleg Volk sense, (you get in my face and threaten my life and those of my loved ones, and I will passify you all the way to the autopsy table)... So with knife in one hand, and my bike lock in the other... all the while, thinking "I've got two weapons in my hands, and I'm wearing a helmet..advantage twoblink.."
Now, I get warnings from my wife all the time "Don't make waves", but at the same time, I am thinking, "All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
He got in my face, and if I were me by myself, I would have been ok. But with the wife there, it was the first time I felt (I don't even know how to describe the feeling), I didn't worry about dying, or getting injured, but I did worry about her safety. Being married less than a month, I have to say, my perspective has changed quite a bit.
I, for the first time, am having an internal conflict. Do I stand ideally by, and watch as value systems after value systems go down the tube, where might makes right, and evil men are free to do wrong under the banner of thuggary, or do I do what I know is right?
"Pick your fights" is what a lot have told me, but the problem is, I'm not picking a fight.
What if I got hurt or injured? What, over some trash that is thrown? But at the same time, where do I draw the line? Do evil men have free rein because good men do a cost/benefit analysis before any actions?
I am conflicted about self-defense, and defending what is right, while balancing the responsibilities of a husband and perhaps later on, that of a father.
I'd love to hear the forum's comments, on this.
The ending to the story is.. The light turned green, and we rode off.. The guy however, now having "lost face" (which is more serious in an Asian culture than death) had the taxi driver try to chase us down.. He jumped out of the taxi at the next red light, and tried to chase us on foot... We being on a bike, just took off..
I point at the guy, and yell out "Hey! Where do you get off just littering?"
Of course, some greasy faced 6-foot fat bald man in a wife-beater t-shirt starts yelling and spraying spit.
"What is your problem?" he yells at me.
"You littering is the problem" I replied
"What, you think it's illegal or something? I can litter if I want!"
"Well, it __IS__ illegal, and I'm so glad that you act like a model citizen and throw trash everywhere."
The guy then gets out of the taxi, and gets in my face..
"What are you going to do about it little @($&!(*%!(&@!(* "??
I'm a passivist in the Oleg Volk sense, (you get in my face and threaten my life and those of my loved ones, and I will passify you all the way to the autopsy table)... So with knife in one hand, and my bike lock in the other... all the while, thinking "I've got two weapons in my hands, and I'm wearing a helmet..advantage twoblink.."
Now, I get warnings from my wife all the time "Don't make waves", but at the same time, I am thinking, "All that is necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing."
He got in my face, and if I were me by myself, I would have been ok. But with the wife there, it was the first time I felt (I don't even know how to describe the feeling), I didn't worry about dying, or getting injured, but I did worry about her safety. Being married less than a month, I have to say, my perspective has changed quite a bit.
I, for the first time, am having an internal conflict. Do I stand ideally by, and watch as value systems after value systems go down the tube, where might makes right, and evil men are free to do wrong under the banner of thuggary, or do I do what I know is right?
"Pick your fights" is what a lot have told me, but the problem is, I'm not picking a fight.
What if I got hurt or injured? What, over some trash that is thrown? But at the same time, where do I draw the line? Do evil men have free rein because good men do a cost/benefit analysis before any actions?
I am conflicted about self-defense, and defending what is right, while balancing the responsibilities of a husband and perhaps later on, that of a father.
I'd love to hear the forum's comments, on this.
The ending to the story is.. The light turned green, and we rode off.. The guy however, now having "lost face" (which is more serious in an Asian culture than death) had the taxi driver try to chase us down.. He jumped out of the taxi at the next red light, and tried to chase us on foot... We being on a bike, just took off..