Please read very carefully:
If you think you will ever change this gal's mind you are wrong....
If you think this is an issue now, just wait until after you get married..
Never get married with the idea in mind that the things that you don't like about your potential mate can be somehow "moderated" later.. They can't. You won't be able to change her opinions any more than she can change yours.
If you give in on an issue such as this you are handing her your testicles in a gift wrapped box.. She will put that box away in a safe place, and every time you try to be the "man" of the house she will bring the box out, open it up, and squeeze your family jewels until you go "wee wee"...
It's more than a guns/no guns issue. It's more about whose "will" is stronger, and who will indeed make the decisions and wear the pants in the marriage.
Maybe it's just me, but I would prefer to keep my gonads than marry a woman who thought hers were bigger than mine.
Give in, give up.. That simple.
Just my old fart (married for over 38yrs) opinion. Oh yeah, my bride keeps a 357mag in her nightstand drawer, and her vehicle weapon of choice is a pristine Colt Cobra..
Keep looking.. There are PLENTY of ladies out there looking for a MAN..
Be one.
JP
P.S. It strikes me that the EX-therapist "Playboy Penguin" is as full of merde as a Christmas turkey... (Notice I didn't say "Holiday turkey")....