Monkeybear
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My fiance' was an anti too.
Basically I bought a gun and told her, "I love you. I own a gun and will continue to own one. The only way we are going to solve this is if we talk about it and comprimise. If we dont have the ability to talk to each other and work things out to express ourselves then what do we have?"
That was it, I meant it and knew it. We talked and came to an agreement. I sent her lots of reading so she could educate herself and we worked it out.
Basically I can buy one handgun a year(mainly so I dont spend to much money on it when I have alot of other things I need and limited income, when I make more we will reaccess it) and when we move in together no bullets in the house. She likes shooting my CZ 9mm too, we go to the range now.
Basically I bought a gun and told her, "I love you. I own a gun and will continue to own one. The only way we are going to solve this is if we talk about it and comprimise. If we dont have the ability to talk to each other and work things out to express ourselves then what do we have?"
That was it, I meant it and knew it. We talked and came to an agreement. I sent her lots of reading so she could educate herself and we worked it out.
Basically I can buy one handgun a year(mainly so I dont spend to much money on it when I have alot of other things I need and limited income, when I make more we will reaccess it) and when we move in together no bullets in the house. She likes shooting my CZ 9mm too, we go to the range now.