Wow. Some guys have all the luck.
As a new shooter, I faced a very "anti" wife while trying to convince her that I should (a) get a handgun (b) get a CCW permit and (c) carry.
She hated guns, she hate people who own guns, and no one needs to carry. Besides, it'll just get taken away and used to hurt me, and anyway it was 43 times more likely to hurt one of us...
Well, I was able to show her factual refutations of most of that, but she still hated guns and gun owners.
It came down to this, I said. You've known me for 16 years. I am kind, gentle, calm, reasonable, smart, honest, trustworthy, a good father, a good husband, and I always wash behind my ears.
So you can either decide that you have been wrong about me all this time, or that you've been wrong about gun owners.
She still doesn't love the idea. But she decided to respect me. She also said she doesn't want to see or hear about my hobby, so I respect her.
On the other hand, I don't hide the fact that I carry everywhere, every day. She consented to letting me show her the safe operation of the gun, with snap caps, and is a little more convinced I'm not going to blow my foot off.
She has also seen the gun safe and the lockbox in my trunk. She knows that I am fiendishly conservative about safety.
Baby steps. Maybe one day she'll come to the range with me.
Matt