Yes, lots of them. Not in 100k rounds, more like 7-10k rounds.
Fairly typical failure being cracking/breaking off of the tab at the front of the milled steel slide, where the recoil spring goes through.
Models? Pictures or other proof? Documentation that they weren't fed a diet of Clark-level loads?
I'm with M-Cameron; never heard of a quality pistol wearing out in <10K rounds, save for true micro guns. Some may suffer a part breakage, but that is wholly different from "wearing out". It's also extremely uncommon for it to be the guide rod tang on the slide which lets go.
so its not the pressure its the bolt thrust
Nope. That would be the case only if you were seeing shearing of the lug(s) on locked breech pistols, the majority of which are the leading edge of the chamber in modern designs. Pretty uncommon failure point.
It is slide velocity that batters semi-automatic handguns. Slide cracking at the ejection port
could be partially attributed to thrust, but is more likely inertia, the heavier portion of the slide rear of the port trying to tear itself away from the front half that is stopped when it bottoms out the recoil spring.
This is the reason that pocket guns do not have the lifespan of larger counterparts; the lighter weight slides are moving at higher velocity, in accordance with Newton's 3rd law. Ergo, they are more abusive to themselves and the frames.
Now, where revolvers, derringers, single shots or other pistols with a fixed breech are concerned, yes, thrust is the primary factor, as it is acting to separate the chamber(s) or barrel(s) from the breechface with each shot. Is why smaller framed revolvers like the S&W K frames will "shoot themselves loose" if fed a steady diet of really heavy loads, which stretch the frame and batter the forcing cone, causing end shake and loose lock up.