thumper723
Member
Jbraun,
I am in what you describe, but 4 years post marriage.
She "didn't like" stuff, and tries to regulate what I do. If I had known how much she would try to control stuff, like you know NOW, I would have bugged out.
Now I am in a miserable situation, and my CO will trash my career if I file for the big D.
The way I am able to have my way most of the time is we have no kids, and she does not work. I drop the "you dont like it, file for divorce" when she tries to have UNREASONABLE controls. (Like demanding I transfer to a different department, because there is a Female pilot working for me now)
This is just the tip of the iceberg. Trust me, been there, and still there, but trying to leave with my career intact.
I am in what you describe, but 4 years post marriage.
She "didn't like" stuff, and tries to regulate what I do. If I had known how much she would try to control stuff, like you know NOW, I would have bugged out.
Now I am in a miserable situation, and my CO will trash my career if I file for the big D.
The way I am able to have my way most of the time is we have no kids, and she does not work. I drop the "you dont like it, file for divorce" when she tries to have UNREASONABLE controls. (Like demanding I transfer to a different department, because there is a Female pilot working for me now)
This is just the tip of the iceberg. Trust me, been there, and still there, but trying to leave with my career intact.